"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"the beauty myth"

woods

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I read in a newspaper today "According to Naomi Wolf, author of The Beauty Myth, there's a patriarchal conspiracy to keep women dieting so they'll be too weak and hungry to compete with men" :crackup: Maybe some of you have heard of this book, but I haven't, and I refuse to look into it, so have fun with some replies to this Bvllshyt.

Here's my two cents:

#1 Do you think there is a small possibility that the author is just a "tad overweight?"

#2 She may be onto something: Maybe the reason women are so bytchy is because they're starving to death!

#3 If anyone here lives somewhere where fat chicks are competitive and hard to deal with, and skinny chicks are passive and obedient; do you need a roommate???
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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woods said:
I read in a newspaper today "According to Naomi Wolf, author of The Beauty Myth, there's a patriarchal conspiracy to keep women dieting so they'll be too weak and hungry to compete with men" :crackup:
Is this a serious article? Anti-man anyway. I thought dieting was supposed to improve health and make people look better.
 

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The article I read this in, was not agreeing with this at all, and it was written by a woman. It was in an advice column, that some fat chick wrote in to. The author took our side, saying it's actually smart women that skinny-up so they can get a decent man. It's the book that has the man hate shyt.
 

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slaog said:
Is this a serious article? Anti-man anyway. I thought dieting was supposed to improve health and make people look better.

Yeah really, women like these act like if a man wants a female to be at least not more than say 10lbs over her ideal/healthy weight, then it becomes "men want starved women who are stick figures!". What she's really saying is men should accept overwieght and obese women as the model of beauty. Nuts. Most men are not attracted to women who are too skinny and biologically unhealthy and less fertile.
 
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