"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The beat goes on.. The Cougar

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dust 2 Dust

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Cougars chase the young guys for one nights stands. This show has nothing to do with cougars.

"New show called The Cougar. Twenty guys in their 20s compete for the affections of a 40 something mom with four kids."

Which really means it's 20 guys competing for the affections of a 40 year old woman using the show for exposure to kick start her acting career. Woman will then ditch all 20 guys after the show completes taping.
 

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I saw CNN show about it. What the hell is it with these old rich women hunting down young men?

Are these guys that desperate for the money in her purse?

This is dam gross from my point of view. I saw preview of that show which 12 guys get off the bus to meet a woman. Sheesh, man.
What the hell is happening to our society ?
 

Hooligan Harry

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Scary thing is that I dont think they do it for the money. What concerns me is that men are becoming so feminised I would not be surprised if they are doing it for the validation!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Isn't that Wyldfire? 40-something, 4 kids, enough Game to charm twenty 20-something guys. :D
 

Dust 2 Dust

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Jitterbug said:
Isn't that Wyldfire? 40-something, 4 kids, enough Game to charm twenty 20-something guys. :D
LMAO. Didn't she have like 4 kids by 3 different fathers? I remember she used to have a website as well.
 

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Dust 2 Dust said:
LMAO. Didn't she have like 4 kids by 3 different fathers? I remember she used to have a website as well.
I think all of the fathers were in prison or died there as well.

:eek:
 

speed dawg

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I thought it was hilarious. You have to watch the show for its idiotic comedy though. The whole dynamic of 20 guys chasing after a used up cougar for more than just sex is laughable and stupid on so many levels. So I just laugh at all the idiots making fools of themselves.
 

Trader

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All the guys in there are looking for love?

They should be there only to bang her - not to get into a long-term relationship
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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on a personal level im sure theyre all just doing it for money and fame, the same reason as any 'reality' show's contestants operate.
 

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So how long do you see this "cougar revolution" being a part of our culture?

I have a business idea.
 

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STR8UP said:
So how long do you see this "cougar revolution" being a part of our culture?

I have a business idea.
I think it is only going to get bigger. I don't see any signs of it slowing down. Might as well make money off it. I have a few ideas myself.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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STR8UP said:
So how long do you see this "cougar revolution" being a part of our culture?

I have a business idea.
MrLuvr said:
I think it is only going to get bigger. I don't see any signs of it slowing down. Might as well make money off it. I have a few ideas myself.
You guys feel like sharing?
 
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