"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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the battle of the alpha males

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well , let me say first off i've never had really a problem getting women, i just noticed it was alot easier for some of my friends. so somehow i came here one day and i took the 8 week course. anyway, needless to say i've improved over time, and i just noticed this weekend i was sitting with a table of about 6 women who were 8+.,

heres where the problem comes in..another alpha male. i was making them laugh, they were all enjoying it and everything, it was great. there were other guys there who were being quite, but what do you do when another alpha male is in the party?

just wondering...:box:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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a one-upper? kind of like the axe commercial...

another alpha male...hmm...become friends with him and sarge together.
 

Delta

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whoever gets threatened LOSES.

you are friendly and even look out for his best interest because you have nothing to lose. you have all that you need and nothing threatens you.

the person who gets territorial and "goes on the offensive" is operating out of FEAR and fear is a symptom of weakness, not power.

which is really weird because in this one regard, the new testament really is good advice for djs.... love is power.

delta
 

KoalaKing

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Do what I did, take up martial arts, workout at the gym, on the weights and the punching bag, then you will have the power to intimidate and remove the other rival AlphaMale, and sometimes it is in your best interests to do that, what could be worse than being a DJ that can't even physically protect himself, strangely enough about 80% of them can't. :yes:
 
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