"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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the battle of the alpha males

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well , let me say first off i've never had really a problem getting women, i just noticed it was alot easier for some of my friends. so somehow i came here one day and i took the 8 week course. anyway, needless to say i've improved over time, and i just noticed this weekend i was sitting with a table of about 6 women who were 8+.,

heres where the problem comes in..another alpha male. i was making them laugh, they were all enjoying it and everything, it was great. there were other guys there who were being quite, but what do you do when another alpha male is in the party?

just wondering...:box:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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a one-upper? kind of like the axe commercial...

another alpha male...hmm...become friends with him and sarge together.
 

Delta

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whoever gets threatened LOSES.

you are friendly and even look out for his best interest because you have nothing to lose. you have all that you need and nothing threatens you.

the person who gets territorial and "goes on the offensive" is operating out of FEAR and fear is a symptom of weakness, not power.

which is really weird because in this one regard, the new testament really is good advice for djs.... love is power.

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KoalaKing

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Do what I did, take up martial arts, workout at the gym, on the weights and the punching bag, then you will have the power to intimidate and remove the other rival AlphaMale, and sometimes it is in your best interests to do that, what could be worse than being a DJ that can't even physically protect himself, strangely enough about 80% of them can't. :yes:
 
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