"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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the average guy finding himself digging a chick too much

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dannowillbookem

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my useless blithering:

i kno i kno its not supposed to be like this...i shouldnt care what she says or does. but man shes like whoa! a hb 10 and a personality 10!

i've been pulling c&f on her but its hard to know when to move it up to the next level, you know? i've never really made the switch from a play/conquest to an actual girlfriend. usually i conquer then get tired and toss them...but wow, something about this girl is different.

for one thing, shes probably out of my league in technical terms. of course i'm so damn ****y i kno i could get pamela anderson. but this chick is more real...like what if i mess up? i get nervous around her and like do idiotic then like mispronounce her name. serioiusly, that hasnt happened to me since i found this website. i have doubts that i can get her to like me, and i'm questioning all i know about getting girls. i need advice. i need to know

1. how to get over being nervous about this certain girl
2. how to get her to know i like her without actually telling her
3. how to move it past my common conquest to a ltr.

usually i mack on younger girls (dont get me wrong i can get a girl my grade and older even, but its just more work for something i'll toss in two weeks anyways so i dont) and i dont know if i can take this chick.

please help.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Man you need to chill, relax! shes just a little girl, from your post I think you're putting her on a pedestal you should stop that. Anyway I think you should relax and show lots of confidence when you're around her and dont overdo the ****y part because you're going to seem like an arrogant prick, trust me it happened to me . Dont act goofy just to make her laugh, dont try too hard to make her like you be yourself and relax, thats my 2 cents. :cool:
 
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no such thing as a HB10. there's always better. if she's that good, buy her a ring with all your money and ask her to marry you. because you don't want to lose her now do you? personality 10? if you know her well enough to know her personality, you can ask her out. that being said, talk to her and stop being so uptight
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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