This girl I used to date I'm starting to think was an attention wh0re always swore up and down she didn't need attention. Even with all her myspacing with ex boyfriends and dudes for friends rather then girls blah blah. (she would say hanging with guys was less drama) Almost to the point where she believed her own bull****. which almost made me believe her bull****. I don't know if its cause she was adopted or didn't get enough attention from her dad or what. anybody here ever have an attention wh0re that thought she wasn't one?
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The Attention Wh0re in denial
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They largely have no insight into their own behaviours and how maladaptive they are so most of them literally cannot see a problem with the way they are living life or even see what behaviour they are exhibiting.
Some do and find out what they are.
Most don't.
Either way whether they find out what they are or deny what they are beings an Axis II mental health disorder they are extremely resistant to changing themselves even if they wish to.
Some do and find out what they are.
Most don't.
Either way whether they find out what they are or deny what they are beings an Axis II mental health disorder they are extremely resistant to changing themselves even if they wish to.
hey Kontroller thanx for the response. I responded to your PM. check your inbox when ya get a chanceKontrollerX said:
just out of curiosity even though they are resistant to change. is it possible? don't worry not getting my hopes up, just wondering.