This girl I used to date I'm starting to think was an attention wh0re always swore up and down she didn't need attention. Even with all her myspacing with ex boyfriends and dudes for friends rather then girls blah blah. (she would say hanging with guys was less drama) Almost to the point where she believed her own bull****. which almost made me believe her bull****. I don't know if its cause she was adopted or didn't get enough attention from her dad or what. anybody here ever have an attention wh0re that thought she wasn't one?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
The Attention Wh0re in denial
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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They largely have no insight into their own behaviours and how maladaptive they are so most of them literally cannot see a problem with the way they are living life or even see what behaviour they are exhibiting.
Some do and find out what they are.
Most don't.
Either way whether they find out what they are or deny what they are beings an Axis II mental health disorder they are extremely resistant to changing themselves even if they wish to.
Some do and find out what they are.
Most don't.
Either way whether they find out what they are or deny what they are beings an Axis II mental health disorder they are extremely resistant to changing themselves even if they wish to.
hey Kontroller thanx for the response. I responded to your PM. check your inbox when ya get a chanceKontrollerX said:
just out of curiosity even though they are resistant to change. is it possible? don't worry not getting my hopes up, just wondering.