"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The attention ***** experiment.

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imnexthere

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HS is winding down and I have little interest in any of the girls (they are far from women) in school. So, Im starting a little experiment for a little while to amuse myself. There is this girl. She is a huge attention ***** and overall tease. I #closed her afew months ago and all of a sudden she got real cold towards me. My guess is that's because she knew I liked her and the ball was in her court (helpful hint to others: Dont get drunk and then speak to people. Esp. girls)

So, This week I have been cutting down on contact with her. NO, this isnt ganji. That stuff is crap and I dont intend to really date her anyway. I only speak to her when she speaks to me first and I keep it short. When she kinos me I act like it annoys me. I don't initiate any conversation or eye contact.

Now this is where the experiment part comes in. Ive always wondered about the whole "hard to get" thing. I had always believed that people will go with the person most interested in them provided they look good enough and have decent personality.

Im testing this out by being the only guy around who acts visibly uninterested in her. Every other guy around plays along with her and acts interested. We'll see if this raises her interest in me or if she just ignors me and goes back to the swarm of guys who will speak to her and do whatever she wants.

So far on day three it is working very well. Her IL is visibly higher as she is inventing reasons to speak to me and kinoing me.

Any comments/suggestions? Am I wasting my time? I dont think so . This seems an interesting way to spend a small chunk of my school day.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Eternal

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Lol, damn man. Came up with an experiment on his own. Don't outshine your mentor TOO much now. :D I'd like to see the results at the end of this and see just how attention whorish these girls are. Will be fun.
 
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Actually, this is EXACTLY how Ganji is supposed to be used...most people are just stupid.
 
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