"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Art of The Early Morning Walk

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Im still here The Philippines, Ive lost 20 something pounds by taking up Yoga and Pilates and Im just beginning to enjoy myself.


Honestly I started walking two days in a row and already, Ive had a few interactions for setting up future possible friendships.


I came in looking with a nice attire, a fedora hat, polo shirt and cargo shorts with matching shoes…..honestly, I wish I had a dog to go with me on these early morning walks so I can appear more friendlier.


Early morning walks around the park or your neighborhood, try it out sometime. IMG_8856.jpeg
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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20 lbs = 10 kg
You lost those simply by eating different foods, meainly none hormone enjected meats. When you come back to you the U.S. you will gain your weight back.
 

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regain weight? probably, those fast food temptations will get to me…and I like to go to a bar and eat a nice steak or a large juicy burger with fries and a cold glass of beer….Lol….

But really, Yoga, Pilates, brisk walking, martial arts/ kung fu keeps me in shape no matter how much junk I eat. I have two to three work out sessions a day, its called raising your junk food immunity and metabolism….lol haha.

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Hi Sevbucmash,
The Phillipines has the lousiest food I have ever encountered,seems an invariable routine of Chicken and Rice with a few Herbs and Spices.....They have an enormous Coastline yet I never saw one decent Sea Food Restaurant...fortunately their are a lot of Chinese fast food joints,the food being tasty if not spectacularly healthy.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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