"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene

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Anybody read this?

I'm finding it gets to the point a lot quicker than The DJ Bible and adds colorful historical references to famous DJ's from history -- from Casanove to Cleopatra.

It also breaks down effective behavior into a dozen different types instead of the one or two mentioned on these forums and talks about "victim selection" -- knowing what moves to use with which women (or men for the ladies). It goes a lot deeper than "treat a discount like a premium and vice versa."

There is really a wealth of info here backed up with solid history. If you've read it tell me what you think. I am trying to put this to use in some summer-school classes.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Absolute piss. No use at all.
If you see a hot girl in a bar, there is nothing in that book that will assist you in any way in approaching or engaging her.
It was written by a guy who just put "seduction" into a computer at the library and wrote about the results.
I don't rate it at all.
 

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I don't think it's so bad as these people above make it sound. It's more helpful if you are pursing a particular woman, rather than improving your overall game and generating dates.
I'd say definitely worth a read! (well not worth $30 something, but if you get ur hands on it)
 

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Right, it's not a pickup manual. You don't seduce a barfly. It's intended for winning one quality woman, heart and mind first. The rest, as we know, will follow . . . and probably swallow, too . . .
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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