"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene

gentleman193

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Anybody read this?

I'm finding it gets to the point a lot quicker than The DJ Bible and adds colorful historical references to famous DJ's from history -- from Casanove to Cleopatra.

It also breaks down effective behavior into a dozen different types instead of the one or two mentioned on these forums and talks about "victim selection" -- knowing what moves to use with which women (or men for the ladies). It goes a lot deeper than "treat a discount like a premium and vice versa."

There is really a wealth of info here backed up with solid history. If you've read it tell me what you think. I am trying to put this to use in some summer-school classes.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Absolute piss. No use at all.
If you see a hot girl in a bar, there is nothing in that book that will assist you in any way in approaching or engaging her.
It was written by a guy who just put "seduction" into a computer at the library and wrote about the results.
I don't rate it at all.
 

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I don't think it's so bad as these people above make it sound. It's more helpful if you are pursing a particular woman, rather than improving your overall game and generating dates.
I'd say definitely worth a read! (well not worth $30 something, but if you get ur hands on it)
 

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Right, it's not a pickup manual. You don't seduce a barfly. It's intended for winning one quality woman, heart and mind first. The rest, as we know, will follow . . . and probably swallow, too . . .
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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