Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
I have not had any attempts at seducing a chick that was a downer, but my guess would be to focus on their outlook/philosophy on life first and their current emotion second. If the women is pessimistic, talk to her in a way that allows her to be pessimisticJayer said:Just off the bat in response to what you responded to me. How would you go about seducing a "Marla Singer" type? Cause I have no clue with these girls....
Anti Seducer
Man this section hit hard for me. A little in the beginning but the stories that followed were really showing flaws that I have been guilty of. Concerning not paying enough attention in the first story, my favorite quote wasAlthough I think that the hatred is just loosely veiled attraction that can be manipulated (see: All of Sunny D's threads) there is a point where the inattention leads to hatred and you have to put in a little extra in order to get back to where you once were. Plus the residue of the hatred will always be there imo.In the process of seduction you may have to pull back at times, subjecting your target to moments of doubt. But prolonged inattention will not only break the spell, it can create hatred
In the second story, this one hit me the hardest. For those that read my approach journal they probably recognized my cavemanning and boundary pushing in the club that lead to short term success but tons of flaking. Many of my successes in the club arose from less kino (still kino nonetheless) and more talking/getting to know her. I agree with the statement that "haste degrees not the depth of your feelings but the degree of your self-absorption". I always had my interest at hand when I grope the girls but when we are talking, the only way I know how to do it is to make her the center of attention.
The third story, about hesitation is basic seduction. Strike while the iron is hot. The quote I liked the best was that
When you get caught up on your insecurities you can’t focus on the target which is why you, as a person, should not factor into the seduction equationHis hesitation shows that he is thinking of himself, not of her...
The fourth story does not really apply to anything I have witnessed/done before so no comment there
The quote in the fifth story I liked the most was
The 6th story was not real interesting/relevant to me.if you are looking for something other than pleasure - for money, for power - never show it. The suspicion of an ulterior motive is anti-seduction
The overall message I got from each Anti-Seduction story was to keep the focus on the target. Things tend to unravel when you are lost in your thoughts and