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The Art of Rejection

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I'm currently getting two new projects off the ground, so my weeks are flooded with meetings with potential partners and suppliers.

One of these meetings was with a local artist (painting) for one of these projects. I presented the proposal, the brand's mission, the benefits, possible counterpoints, and all that sort of thing.

I presented the proposal for a percentage of revenue to this artist, and she made a counter-proposal. So far so good. A few days later, I adjusted the proposal based on the conversation to a % close to what she had asked for and asked for another meeting.

Then, a few days later, she refused, saying that the project was "utopian" and poorly structured.

With this unprofessional rejection, especially after we've reached the point of having negotiated a percentage, it's unlikely that the bridge will be re-established.

That's why I say: knowing how to reject is an art.

Whether it's rejection in business or relationships.

Be smart. Be wise.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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Sounds like your negotiation tactics rubbed her the wrong way and she probably thinks the same way about you as you do her.
 
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