"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Art of Mastering the First Date

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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On the serious side.. there is no "art" of mastering a first date.

You need to be COMPATIBLE with a woman while also being attractive to her. How attractive you are is determined by your SMV.

The Internet is packed full of articles on "game" teaching men how to validate women instead of telling men to fix their SMV.

 
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i got no SMV, no physique, yet women are attracted... 'splain me dat?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This article seems like its full of ironically excellent advice.

Not ordering spicy food when you might get laid is something i never thought of
 
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MrWood said:
yes..
and it is exactly this that real woment WANT more than SMV
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Don't make me laugh.

You should have a 100% success rate with women then. Do you? Why aren't you currently dating a supermodel?

More blue pill sh*t.

LOL.
 
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Urbanyst said:
On the serious side.. there is no "art" of mastering a first date.

You need to be COMPATIBLE with a woman while also being attractive to her. How attractive you are is determined by your SMV.

The Internet is packed full of articles on "game" teaching men how to validate women instead of telling men to fix their SMV.

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Just need to look better than all her current options and exes
 
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ive a house date with a HB8, in her 20\s she was a former Miss Finland competitor, I thought she was 39... shes 46
SHE gave me her number
SHE invited me for coffee tomorrow

HB8 business owner is meeting me for the rest of the weekend, a massage therapist (not mine, never went)

my last gf was 30-34yo, i was 48-52

bite me
 
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MrWood said:
ive a house date with a HB8, in her 20\s she was a former Miss Finland competitor, I thought she was 39... shes 46
SHE gave me her number
SHE invited me for coffee tomorrow

HB8 business owner is meeting me for the rest of the weekend, a massage therapist (not mine, never went)

my last gf was 30-34yo, i was 48-52

bite me
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Why don't you use your PASSION to date a woman who hasn't hit THE WALL then?

LOL.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why don't you use your PASSION to date a woman who hasn't hit THE WALL then?
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lol im 52, i just came out of a 4yr relationship with someone 18 years younger

lol? your gift to the world is to belittle others based on your insecurities... wow
 
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to be fair while i dont think SMV is all, it is indeed a big part of it, i have no money or status but i do have the looks and as a result i get away with a lot of sh*t and approaching and getting women to go out is fairly easy, my friends always wonder how i had a gf when i lack talents and passions sh*t people dont even know what i do in my free time lol and many (including girls) have asked me a lot about it , i dont seem approach girls or go out of my way for a woman, but hey if you got something the chicks want then youre good ....

as for passion, it indeed does help but passion alone wont do it , if you are an established man with a nice lifestyle (not rich just comfy life style) and take care of yourself plus having passion will usually help you with women ... whether we like it or not women look at other things besides personality , i know this first hand , just like i attract girls with looks i have also lost girls to guys who had one advnatage : money ... now what attracts a hot 22 years old girl who's parents got high hopes for more than hot looks and nice personaltiy ? a guy that can help her secure her entire future, and in most cases that was not me lol
 
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lol im 52, i just came out of a 4yr relationship with someone 18 years younger

lol? your gift to the world is to belittle others based on your insecurities... wow
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What insecurities?

Only insecure people are the ones who change the topics of threads to be about different posters. That's never me.
 
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