"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The art of being drunk

jason86

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Im going to make a thread on 'The art of being high from cocaine'. Ive got mad pu$sy from that, but i use it for the sole purpose for having fun with my buddies on big nights out. pus$y just ends up coming with it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Not Quite There

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Originally posted by GodsGiftToFatBirds




Haha, mate, perhaps you should have my user name instead of me, its been a while since i had any fat birds. Well truely fat ones anyway, the sort where you wake up in the morning, roll over to see who's on the pillow next to you, and go 'well, at least its a woman'.


haha, mate, you don't know how spot on you are there, lets just stay i proper took one for the team the other night!

I don't know how it happened, but the past few weeks I have been going to walkabout(not my kinda place at all), and it seems to happen there, so i am definatly not going back in a hurry!
 

Not Quite There

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Re: Useful

Originally posted by everywomanshero

I don't see any harm in having 6 beers on a Saturday night once a month. I hope no one here is doing this every Fri & Sat night, though.
haha, pretty much everyone one in the UK is doing that, plus wednesday, thursday, sunday....


drinking every once in a while is dangerous, it lowers your tolerance and you get more wasted than you would wish to!
 

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If you need alcohol to do all that, you are not a real DJ. Sad, but true. When I go to the Stampede with my friends (country dance club locally), I end up dancing and having fun with chicks I haven't met before sober, than all of my friends who have had a beer or three do.

Hell, if you're sober, pretend you've had a few and you don't care. It will end up coming naturally.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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