"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The arrival of St. Valentines

Diaoz

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Right, so what's the DJ way to celebrate Valentines?

Of course we shouldn't be wussy and try to buy a girl by showering her with expensive gifts, top restaurant, huge bouquet of flowers(which is uber expensive on the day anyway).

But...face it, it's a great day to score points if done right. Girls do like to show off what their guy did.

So, let's spark a discussion on how to make the day great without being a 'nice' wuss.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Avsguy01

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I dont think there is anything wrong with being a nice wuss, for just this day. If you have a girl treat her good! Thats the point of Valentines day. Oh, just remember to give her some great sex too!
 

Jay-X

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i don't give a damn sh1t if i'll be a wuss... yesterday my girlfriend told me she's really upset, since she thinks i don't show her my love, because i never give her gifts or surprises... i think i'm going to school 2 days before (st. valentine happens on monday) and puttin' a set of flowers on her desk. then, after school i'm going to meet her and give her a chocolates' box. finally, i'm bringin' her out for dinner and givin' her a ring... it's the first ring i'm going to buy for a girlfriend, any ideas on how much i'm going to spend?! consider that we've been steady for 7 months, but we're only teenagers... how much do u think?
 

Panda 2000

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I don't buy all that valentines crap.
 

Julian

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who cares about valentines the only thing i care about is 50 cents new album valentines day massacre AND THATS ALL!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by Phoenix_of_the_ashes
They should make a valentines day for men.
They do. Superbowl Sunday.
 
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