LuisGarcia10
Senior Don Juan
Up until a week ago when I found this website by the blessing of the gods, I never approahced girls. I hit the dance floor and hoped something would happen, occasionally grabbing the odd girl in a gesture to dance, which was usually rejected.
Not only this but when a girl hit on me I was too AFC'ish to notice, perhaps the following is the most prime example.
Me and my mates were sitting in a kareoke bar having a drink and discussing kareoke songs and trying to persuade each other to get up and sing. A girl walking past over-heard this and used it as an excuse to come over and talk. After 5 minutes she was sat next to me, very close so that every time she moved her arms it would rub against me. She then started playfully ruffing up my hair.
Obvious signs of attraction.
I however didn't notice because I was too dumb to realise.
This week we visited the same bar and I saw a group of 3 girls sat down, I used the excuse of looking for a lighter to go over there but they didn't have one so I ran out of things to say and went back to my table.
Two blokes then went and sat with them, that did it for me.
Me and my mate came and sat with them and I couldn't be arsed with an excuse, I just said in a confident way,
"We saw there's a lot of you so we're gonna come and join the party"
It turns out that these other two blokes were pretty AFCish.
By the end of the night I walked away with a number and neither of the other two or my mate did, despite a girl literally rubbing my mates leg.
Now I know it's been said countless times before, but having the balls to approach a girl is absolutley essential to getting girls. It seems obvious and I know it's not easy to do, but all you have to do is trust yourself. I've tried twice so far in a bar atmosphere, both times I've got numbers. Now it may be that both those girls were just being polite or were pissed or whatever, but it's incredibly unlikely that would be the case 2 weeks running. If it is then who cares? It's there problem not mine. I'm going to College on Monday where they'll be plenty of girls so it really dosen't bother me if they're interested or not, it's just nice to have a number and the option of ringing them back. It's also good to have a phone book full of girls numbers because when girls go through it like they always do, it shows immediate competition.
So next time you're sitting there with a hot girl sat there, just recite the following.
"I'm sitting here with no girl, no phone number and a beer, the worst that could happen is that I'll be sitting here with no girl, no phone number and a beer, along with expereince, not a damaged ego, but an expereince to be learnt from and one step closer to having no fear"
And we all know what the best case scenario is
Thank you for reading, I know it's not totally original but I hope I've touched on a couple of aspects which you might not have heard before.
Remember, you don't always need an excuse to approach a girl.
I would have never in a million years used that "join the party" line a couple of weeks ago, and a couple of weeks ago I'd never got a number in a bar before.....
Think about it and I'm sure you can see that realistically, there's nothing to worry about what so ever.
Thank you
Not only this but when a girl hit on me I was too AFC'ish to notice, perhaps the following is the most prime example.
Me and my mates were sitting in a kareoke bar having a drink and discussing kareoke songs and trying to persuade each other to get up and sing. A girl walking past over-heard this and used it as an excuse to come over and talk. After 5 minutes she was sat next to me, very close so that every time she moved her arms it would rub against me. She then started playfully ruffing up my hair.
Obvious signs of attraction.
I however didn't notice because I was too dumb to realise.
This week we visited the same bar and I saw a group of 3 girls sat down, I used the excuse of looking for a lighter to go over there but they didn't have one so I ran out of things to say and went back to my table.
Two blokes then went and sat with them, that did it for me.
Me and my mate came and sat with them and I couldn't be arsed with an excuse, I just said in a confident way,
"We saw there's a lot of you so we're gonna come and join the party"
It turns out that these other two blokes were pretty AFCish.
By the end of the night I walked away with a number and neither of the other two or my mate did, despite a girl literally rubbing my mates leg.
Now I know it's been said countless times before, but having the balls to approach a girl is absolutley essential to getting girls. It seems obvious and I know it's not easy to do, but all you have to do is trust yourself. I've tried twice so far in a bar atmosphere, both times I've got numbers. Now it may be that both those girls were just being polite or were pissed or whatever, but it's incredibly unlikely that would be the case 2 weeks running. If it is then who cares? It's there problem not mine. I'm going to College on Monday where they'll be plenty of girls so it really dosen't bother me if they're interested or not, it's just nice to have a number and the option of ringing them back. It's also good to have a phone book full of girls numbers because when girls go through it like they always do, it shows immediate competition.
So next time you're sitting there with a hot girl sat there, just recite the following.
"I'm sitting here with no girl, no phone number and a beer, the worst that could happen is that I'll be sitting here with no girl, no phone number and a beer, along with expereince, not a damaged ego, but an expereince to be learnt from and one step closer to having no fear"
And we all know what the best case scenario is
Thank you for reading, I know it's not totally original but I hope I've touched on a couple of aspects which you might not have heard before.
Remember, you don't always need an excuse to approach a girl.
I would have never in a million years used that "join the party" line a couple of weeks ago, and a couple of weeks ago I'd never got a number in a bar before.....
Think about it and I'm sure you can see that realistically, there's nothing to worry about what so ever.
Thank you