The Approach at the beach

[Maeisgood]

I'm 27 but I'm not sure I'm always the most mature man out here so i guess ill post in here. But when there are girls in bikinis around and I don't approach any of them I beat myself up over My cowardice. They are often in small groups and i came alone with my parents (they obviously wont be with me when i approach). i only come 1 week a year so I don't get as much practice as I would at my favorite bars at home.

The biggest stumbling blocks for me are that I'm not 100% sure what age they are and if there dad/boyfriend/husband is near. When the tide is low I like to comb the beach and sometimes I see them doing it too. It'd be a good opportunity, if I felt like I had something to say. Forcing a stranger into small talk has never been my strongest suit.

The beach is a tantalizing arena for dj stuff and it really makes one wish they were an expert. The beach brings to mind all of the opportunities and short comings. I kissed/ got kissed at a party days ago, but things are different on the beach during the day.

 

[Paintballguy]

What's so different about the beach? Just grab your balls and go talk to some women. Even if they were there with their dad or bf, what are they going to do? You were just having a friendly convo.

I was at San Diego with my friends last year. I had a gf at the time, but I still helped them wing. Me and my buddy ran into two chicks there by themselves. We got talking to them and ended up going back to their hotel with them. The beach is a great place to meet chicks.

 

[BMX]

Nothing should remotely come off as "forced" while at a beach. That's a place I go to RELAX, as do they. Talk about whatever you want to with them. They often do go with it

 

[Jitterbug]

Bring a prop / toy e.g a beach ball. Much easier to break the ice.