"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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salinechow

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All his questions go here from now on.

Wolf: only post in this thread. This way you'll be able to track your progress and have a concise list of your questions and the advice you receive. You will also not have to bump anymore. Also, people will be more inclined to be helpful and follow along with, and check in on you, when you are not polluting the main page with triple posts per day. Give respect and understanding and so shall you receive it.

We are trying to participate in helping you regardless of troll suspicions. Now you need to participate also.:trouble:

http://www.mts.net/~bpony/djbible/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R1JBQMXbN2k

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZVuMXpd1NJA

http://www.amazon.com/Get-Inside-Her-Secrets-Attract-ebook/dp/B00AY8OCIY/ref=asap_bc?ie=UTF8 I think this book is better for you than some of the other ones normally suggested.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If he's a troll, that basically means his life is sad and pathetic with the amount he posts here. If not, he obviously has some kind of mental disability.

In either case he needs help. I don't know if he can get the help he needs here. There's occasionally good advice on this board, but you have to sift through a lot of utter crap to find it. Without a sound mental state, you could get caught up in a bad advice and negative ways of thinking. He's unable to distinguish good advice from bad so I don't know, I doubt it's heathy for him.
 

El Payaso

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Mauser96 said:
I just put him on ignore months ago. That list is getting quite large these days.
How do you ignore someone?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Seriously my friend gets texts from girl she wants to do something kinky friday night things like that. How cnn i get girls to text that they never do?
 

Skyline

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Mauser96 said:
I just put him on ignore months ago. That list is getting quite large these days.
The only person I have on my ignore list is Jaylan...
 
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Google Voice I'm not envy of my friend what I'm trying to explain is I don't get girls talking sexual to me ever like s****** or saying they want to do something kinky I want to know how do I get them to do that?

other question I know you guys say that you need to keep options open and to be unavailable or aloof etc my question is I have this girl that I am starting to date and I'm going to see her tomorrow night and we talked the other night she was telling me that she's been with jerks and found out the guy was married or the guy that was living with his girlfriend things up on that nature. Should I keep my options open until she wants to be my girlfriend obviously when she asked that should I go ahead and do it or play for long because I feel like I play her that i would lose her. And she says she doesnt like to play games and she seems to like chivalry. What do you guys think
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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EvilSpirit22

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Frayzer said:
The only person I have on my ignore list is Jaylan...
He's on my ignore list too. I just can't deal with his ****.
 

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He may be a little "different", but he's not breaking any rules.

Seems pretty easy to me to ignore individuals if they bother you for some reason.
 

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thelonewolflegend said:
Google Voice I'm not envy of my friend what I'm trying to explain is I don't get girls talking sexual to me ever like s****** or saying they want to do something kinky I want to know how do I get them to do that?

other question I know you guys say that you need to keep options open and to be unavailable or aloof etc my question is I have this girl that I am starting to date and I'm going to see her tomorrow night and we talked the other night she was telling me that she's been with jerks and found out the guy was married or the guy that was living with his girlfriend things up on that nature. Should I keep my options open until she wants to be my girlfriend obviously when she asked that should I go ahead and do it or play for long because I feel like I play her that i would lose her. And she says she doesnt like to play games and she seems to like chivalry. What do you guys think
I think you should go with your gut feeling and when you see the result analyze what went right, what went wrong, and what needs to be changed.
 
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Thanks for help sarcasm. Well she cant deny sex next time that would be crappy we almost literally did it she was wet as hell i cant see her not having sex next time or she prude what do i do john says make date mobday have her cone over with sushi be drunk whats the deal? Ibread online you supposed to stop her no one told me.
 

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There are many clueless, hopeless guys who are confused with trolls.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Okay look chow im going thru **** foot is hurting and its been aggrevating not trying to piss u off just trying to not get depress n **** man so just can you be cool and understanding
 
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Its whatever bro u uptight as hell just gotta live a little chill relax people got issues man i know you dont know me but if. Saw me when i was with lanika toll now HUGE INPROVEMENT 270 pounds complete beta let gf wall over me did whatever she said. Now 227 my own man still improving mentally and physically so you know whatever man bye
 

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Allow me to take this opportunity to point out that my friend lonewolf, with help from myself, Salinechow, and others, is now fvcking a 26 y/o who was a virgin...until she met him. Good job, man. :cheer:
 

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Am I the only one here that wants to see lone wolf get 10 red dots?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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