Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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All his questions go here from now on.

Wolf: only post in this thread. This way you'll be able to track your progress and have a concise list of your questions and the advice you receive. You will also not have to bump anymore. Also, people will be more inclined to be helpful and follow along with, and check in on you, when you are not polluting the main page with triple posts per day. Give respect and understanding and so shall you receive it.

We are trying to participate in helping you regardless of troll suspicions. Now you need to participate also.:trouble:

http://www.mts.net/~bpony/djbible/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R1JBQMXbN2k

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZVuMXpd1NJA

http://www.amazon.com/Get-Inside-Her-Secrets-Attract-ebook/dp/B00AY8OCIY/ref=asap_bc?ie=UTF8 I think this book is better for you than some of the other ones normally suggested.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If he's a troll, that basically means his life is sad and pathetic with the amount he posts here. If not, he obviously has some kind of mental disability.

In either case he needs help. I don't know if he can get the help he needs here. There's occasionally good advice on this board, but you have to sift through a lot of utter crap to find it. Without a sound mental state, you could get caught up in a bad advice and negative ways of thinking. He's unable to distinguish good advice from bad so I don't know, I doubt it's heathy for him.
 

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Mauser96 said:
I just put him on ignore months ago. That list is getting quite large these days.
How do you ignore someone?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Seriously my friend gets texts from girl she wants to do something kinky friday night things like that. How cnn i get girls to text that they never do?
 

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Mauser96 said:
I just put him on ignore months ago. That list is getting quite large these days.
The only person I have on my ignore list is Jaylan...
 
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Google Voice I'm not envy of my friend what I'm trying to explain is I don't get girls talking sexual to me ever like s****** or saying they want to do something kinky I want to know how do I get them to do that?

other question I know you guys say that you need to keep options open and to be unavailable or aloof etc my question is I have this girl that I am starting to date and I'm going to see her tomorrow night and we talked the other night she was telling me that she's been with jerks and found out the guy was married or the guy that was living with his girlfriend things up on that nature. Should I keep my options open until she wants to be my girlfriend obviously when she asked that should I go ahead and do it or play for long because I feel like I play her that i would lose her. And she says she doesnt like to play games and she seems to like chivalry. What do you guys think
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Frayzer said:
The only person I have on my ignore list is Jaylan...
He's on my ignore list too. I just can't deal with his ****.
 

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He may be a little "different", but he's not breaking any rules.

Seems pretty easy to me to ignore individuals if they bother you for some reason.
 

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thelonewolflegend said:
Google Voice I'm not envy of my friend what I'm trying to explain is I don't get girls talking sexual to me ever like s****** or saying they want to do something kinky I want to know how do I get them to do that?

other question I know you guys say that you need to keep options open and to be unavailable or aloof etc my question is I have this girl that I am starting to date and I'm going to see her tomorrow night and we talked the other night she was telling me that she's been with jerks and found out the guy was married or the guy that was living with his girlfriend things up on that nature. Should I keep my options open until she wants to be my girlfriend obviously when she asked that should I go ahead and do it or play for long because I feel like I play her that i would lose her. And she says she doesnt like to play games and she seems to like chivalry. What do you guys think
I think you should go with your gut feeling and when you see the result analyze what went right, what went wrong, and what needs to be changed.
 
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Thanks for help sarcasm. Well she cant deny sex next time that would be crappy we almost literally did it she was wet as hell i cant see her not having sex next time or she prude what do i do john says make date mobday have her cone over with sushi be drunk whats the deal? Ibread online you supposed to stop her no one told me.
 

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There are many clueless, hopeless guys who are confused with trolls.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Okay look chow im going thru **** foot is hurting and its been aggrevating not trying to piss u off just trying to not get depress n **** man so just can you be cool and understanding
 
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Its whatever bro u uptight as hell just gotta live a little chill relax people got issues man i know you dont know me but if. Saw me when i was with lanika toll now HUGE INPROVEMENT 270 pounds complete beta let gf wall over me did whatever she said. Now 227 my own man still improving mentally and physically so you know whatever man bye
 

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Allow me to take this opportunity to point out that my friend lonewolf, with help from myself, Salinechow, and others, is now fvcking a 26 y/o who was a virgin...until she met him. Good job, man. :cheer:
 

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Am I the only one here that wants to see lone wolf get 10 red dots?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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