"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The annoying thing about swallowing the 'red pill'...

Mickey Kane

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...is the occasional withdrawal symptoms & the occasional urges/bouts with ONEitis.

26 years old, been doing well over the last year or so just generally recalibrating my mindset when it comes to women & it's been cool however, in & out of work since I graduated from university this summer & struggling & MAN has that reduced my options, lol.

Subsequently, couple one night stands here & then recently, but met a young girl recently who found her way in so far & I'm REALLY uncomfortable with that, lol. She cool, it's a complex situation though. Pretty sure she occupies my mind moreso because of my lack of options right now.

Anyone have similar experiences? Of difficulty adjusting to a red pill mentality, etc or being red pill & falling back into old ways?

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You ****ed around, and eventually found someone you actually connected with more on an emotional level. I don't see what the big deal is.
 

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It's hard to maintain the "red pill" mentality in the beginning. If you fear losing the mentality you will lose it. We will fall over and over again until we finally learn to walk.

As for the girl you need to decide and stick to your decision, do you want her or not?
 

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How can there be anything annoying about being woken up to reality ? It is, what it is.
 

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Use common sense on what you take from the red pill and what you do not. I find "the red pill" is quite too angry for my taste. Being balanced is important. There is nothing wrong with being really into a girl that you like. Try to get her (gaming the way you have had success, not in a different way because you like her).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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