"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The annoying thing about swallowing the 'red pill'...

Mickey Kane

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...is the occasional withdrawal symptoms & the occasional urges/bouts with ONEitis.

26 years old, been doing well over the last year or so just generally recalibrating my mindset when it comes to women & it's been cool however, in & out of work since I graduated from university this summer & struggling & MAN has that reduced my options, lol.

Subsequently, couple one night stands here & then recently, but met a young girl recently who found her way in so far & I'm REALLY uncomfortable with that, lol. She cool, it's a complex situation though. Pretty sure she occupies my mind moreso because of my lack of options right now.

Anyone have similar experiences? Of difficulty adjusting to a red pill mentality, etc or being red pill & falling back into old ways?

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You ****ed around, and eventually found someone you actually connected with more on an emotional level. I don't see what the big deal is.
 

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It's hard to maintain the "red pill" mentality in the beginning. If you fear losing the mentality you will lose it. We will fall over and over again until we finally learn to walk.

As for the girl you need to decide and stick to your decision, do you want her or not?
 

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How can there be anything annoying about being woken up to reality ? It is, what it is.
 

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Use common sense on what you take from the red pill and what you do not. I find "the red pill" is quite too angry for my taste. Being balanced is important. There is nothing wrong with being really into a girl that you like. Try to get her (gaming the way you have had success, not in a different way because you like her).
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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