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Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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The Anabolic Diet: More Muscles, More Strength, Less Fat

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Warboss Alex said:
Actually it's a great excuse to gorge.. a high-fat gaining diet needs more calories than a high-carb one, so it'd be a great excuse for me to hit 5k day in day out.. and all these calories from steak, bacon, eggs, cheese, cream, chicken with skin.. :D
Haha indeed. The perfect lunch: whole chicken :D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Zerix said:
You know, this made me realize something. I think I take in too many carbs. If I'm not mistaken, you mentioned not taking in more than 30g of carbs per day yes? (Except weekends)

I feel sluggish a lotta times too, even though I usually get at least 7 hrs of sleep. Too much carbs can cause this?

One more question if I may. How can I get my protein fix in each of my meals? I do drink whey shakes twice a day (about 24g there per shake). I am definately not getting enough protein, I know that much. I weigh around 155 lbs too.
too many of the wrong carbs can cause sluggishness, yes.

for your protein, you'll need 240-300g a day. sources should be red meat, eggs, chicken, turkey (with skin), tuna (add fats), salmon (or other fatty fish) .. whey powder I'd use sparingly with raw eggs/olive/flax/fish oil added.
 

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Hm, no wonder I get tired easily. I intake too much carbs. Aside from fiber and sugar, what other carbs (that they dont list on nutritional labels) are there? I assume fiber is the best one and most needed one right?

I pretty much already do eat 6 meals a day. My breakfast is instant oatmeal (2 packets of regular flavor), blueberries, wheat germ, with fat free milk.

One of my meals is usually also that Muscle Milk drink (with 32g of protein there).

And I eat a PB&J sandwich almost daily (usually during the nightime). Those are usually consistent.
 

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Zerix said:
Hm, no wonder I get tired easily. I intake too much carbs. Aside from fiber and sugar, what other carbs (that they dont list on nutritional labels) are there? I assume fiber is the best one and most needed one right?

I pretty much already do eat 6 meals a day. My breakfast is instant oatmeal (2 packets of regular flavor), blueberries, wheat germ, with fat free milk.

One of my meals is usually also that Muscle Milk drink (with 32g of protein there).

And I eat a PB&J sandwich almost daily (usually during the nightime). Those are usually consistent.
well, that's no diet for gaining muscle. six meals for you, with about 50g protein in each. if you're doing it the anabolic diet way (which at 155lbs I don't recommend but you can if you want), I'd also go for 40g of fat in each meal as well. saturated fat is fine but make sure to intake fish oil (~20-30g daily) and olive oil (2 tbsp) as well.

make sure the total carbs for the day are less than 30 (or 5g per meal - a generous serving of vegetables every meal should be fine - you MUST have green veggies: broccoli, sprouts, spinach..).

Muscle Milk doesn't count as a meal. Add a few raw eggs to it and now we're talking. It does however have 6g of sugar in a serving (I think 6, maybe more) which is worthless carbs (and on such a diet you need these carbs from fibrous foods). I'd recommend you get a quality whey isolate or zero carb protein instead.

PB+J tastes awesome but does nothing for muscle growth. Just have the peanut butter on celery sticks as a snack during the day (make sure it's no sugar added PB).

at 155lbs, wishing to gain weight, on the weekends I'd make sure to get 300g protein and then eat everything in sight. and I mean anything (clean or otherwise) that isn't nailed down, force the calories down the hatch - just not family pets as that wouldn't be appreciated.

After your initial fat adaption (run the AD for a month or so) I'd probably modify it for weight gain by adding a small amount of low GI pwo carbs (~50g, probably from fruit) and have a carb day every 4th/5th day.

There are also certain supplements I'd recommend on a low carb, mod-high fat diet.

That'd be how I'd do it anyway, given you're 155lbs and 17 years old.
 

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Stronglifts, do you get carb depleted during the week while on this diet? How many carbs are you taking in during weekdays? And, if you do, doesnt that harm your lifting?
Cheers
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Redux said:
Stronglifts, do you get carb depleted during the week while on this diet? How many carbs are you taking in during weekdays? And, if you do, doesnt that harm your lifting?
Cheers
the whole point is carb depletion.. for supercompensation at the weekend.
 

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the whole point is carb depletion.. for supercompensation at the weekend.
I supposed so, but if so, he is cutting himself short. Depleted glycogen can't help his lifts. Altough the high fat linking to anabolic hormones part intrigues me.
 

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Redux said:
I supposed so, but if so, he is cutting himself short. Depleted glycogen can't help his lifts. Altough the high fat linking to anabolic hormones part intrigues me.
depends on the person. you do not really need full glycogen stores to lift at optimum capacity unless you do volume training of a sort (stronglifts does strength training which typically doesn't require full glycogen stores anyway). what's more, glycogen can be partially if not fully replenished from protein and certain aminos/supps without the direct need for carbs. the weekend carbup will fill your glycogen stores as well, which, unless you do high volume workouts, should last you through the week (I wouldn't do high volume training on any sort of low carb approach).

fat regulates hormone production (especially saturated fat). I've been telling people this for ages. this is why you get 18 year olds with low test levels ('cause they eat a no-low fat diet). I think it's absurd, then I see they eat tuna, egg whites, chicken breast.. they avoid red meat and egg yolks like the plague, then I realise why.

remember also that insulin is an antagonist to growth hormone
 

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Redux,

Alex pretty much answered everything already ;)

1) Weekend carb up can go up to 1000g (yes that's a lot)
2) All low intensity activities will be fueled by fat
3) High intensity acitivy will still be fueled by glycogen

Trick is to store the maximal glycogen during the weekend (carb up). Because of the carb restriction in the week, you're body becomes better at storing glycogen & using glycogen (supercompensation).

Of course you need to look at your training:
* volume work should be done after the carb up: you'll feel very strong
* lower volume work at the end of the week

For those who do a lot of volume, a mid week carb up is possible (after 3 months of strict AD).

It works for strength training, powerlifting, strongman, ... Those are high intensity & relativily low volume.

For cycling, running, swimming,... I think it wouldn't work because of the weekly volume.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hockey Playa said:
so when are you going to outline the anabolic diet specifically?
It has been outlined: Monday to Friday you have 30g carbs maximum, and 40% fat at least (probably more until you're fat adapted) and the rest of your calories from protein. weekends you recarb according to your particular goals (maintain, fat loss, weight increase). The macros and calories will also be adjusted to your goals.
 

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Hockey Playa said:
so when are you going to outline the anabolic diet specifically?
weekly, just give me the time to write the articles ;)

Next article on topic is planned Friday.

If you can't wait: read the whole thread, check the book,...

-Thanks for your patience.
 
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