"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
The Alpha FEMALE and it's comparisons....
- Thread starter Badmannaz
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Big Eee Zee
Master Don Juan
Rawblood, I see your percieved point. but realize something-an alpha female and an alpha male are two different things. Alpha isn't a state of mind, or a way of acting, or anything that is tangible or exists. Alpha just means leader. Like the most popular, the most decisive, sometimes the most attractive. There are alpha everythings. Alpha males, alpha females, alpha lions, alpha lionesses, alpha bees (queens, thus female). Any animal that is socal and interacts with others of its kind has an alpha. Humans are social creatures, so they have alpha females and males. Alpha males have more power and higher status, and they try to mate with alpha females. the alpha female is below them, but above other beta females.
BAM!
You have been thoroughly owned.
Don't get into games of semantics, I think you're outclassed in that facility.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I don't feel the need to "prove" fact. Most people reading this is intelligent enough to know that I'm right. Those who don't know will likely look it up online and find that I am right. Either way, I'm right, I know I'm right and it doesn't bother me in the least if you continue to be wrong until the cows come home...it doesn't impact my life one way or the other.
Again...go research wolves. The alpha male is subservient to the alpha female furing breeding, welping and the raising of the pups. She chooses the den, the whole pack serves her and all the pack defers to her...including the alpha male. At ALL times, the beta males are subservient to the alpha female. The beta males are NOT in a higher position than the alpha female.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yes, I'm 100% positive. Everyone but me and my and his kids were extremely intimidated by him, often terrified of him...but also admired him and wanted to be like him.
And with that...I'm done talking to you. I'm right and this conversation is boring.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.