The 90-day wait

[sosuave213]

WTF? Lol geezus you are way off course.

Burden of proof lies on you...that's all you got?

 

[Doctor Europeo]

Guys here scream about wanting a virgin or low notch count, but then complain when a girl exercises discretion and isn't jumping on his c0ck after three dates. You cannot have it both ways gentleman.

That’s why red pill is the best work of fiction written since lord of the rings

I get that it sounds contradictory, but it doesnt have to be. "Sex by date 3 or next" I dont think that´s supposed to be applied universally. Most modern women are not LTR/Marriage material, that´s whom I think you are meant to apply this.

In the unlikely event you find a low notch count (less than 4) girl with a bunch of green flags and little to no red flags, obviously this doesnt apply. I mean, you can "apply" it, but there´s a high probability she is not gonna put out by date 3 and you will end up nexting someone who would have been a good prospect for LTR/Marriage.

 

[Divorced w 3]

I get that it sounds contradictory, but it doesnt have to be. "Sex by date 3 or next" I dont think that´s supposed to be applied universally. Most modern women are not LTR/Marriage material, that´s whom I think you are meant to apply this.

In the unlikely event you find a low notch count (less than 4) girl with a bunch of green flags and little to no red flags, obviously this doesnt apply. I mean, you can "apply" it, but there´s a high probability she is not gonna put out by date 3 and you will end up nexting someone who would have been a good prospect for LTR/Marriage.

Exactly, which is why in a ‘rational’ ie ‘logical’ world, full of ‘iron rules’ aka ‘facts’, plate ‘theory’ is just that - something that is not considered a fact, which is how some of the leading red pill voices are able to slide into monogamy.

Oh, haven’t written or profited once since the ‘seminal work’ that got the entire thing started?
Okay, come here and state for the record that there has never been a revenue sharing agreement or any other financial incentive to participate in anything at any time since that work came out.

Red pill is going to ‘rationalize’ themselves straight to Jonestown, aka single bed assisted care at age 80 with no kids and Marcy from
Jamaica charging them $12k a month.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

That’s not true. You can’t make absolute statements like this. If someone put out all the right vibes and she wasn’t literally a psychopath there may be a real chance she’s just holding out. The red pill guys should be blowing loads out of their ears envisioning a woman like this. Her notch count would be like, 3

Of course I can and I just did. And its true as fvck too. Its cold heart truth. But you might not be ready for it and want to stay in Disneyland?
Women will instantly fvck men that they think are leaders and lust for and let betas wait forever. It just the way the world works.
Dead with it.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

. There's nothing wrong with waiting for more than 3 dates in order to get laid.

Do you wait 3 days and three meetings with the car salesman to test drive the car you want?
Probably not.
If she doesn't allow you to test drive her then she do not have genuine burning desire for you.
Next!

 

[AureliusMaximus]

I know of men who waited 90 days for sex. That means ~90 days from the time they first met (either an in-person approach or a first swipe app date) until sex.

So do I; and they ARE all fvcking losers and lost the game too. Women do not let men wait if she really lust for him.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Just because she's amazing now doesn't mean in 90 days she will.

Maybe she has a hidden agenda and wants to simp it out of you, or otherwise is deceptive to gain some advantage. You can never be too sure.

Not all women are like this, but 90% of them don't make the cut here.

Maybe she says I love you after 3 weeks.

 

[SW15]

Most guys here don't get laid at all. They insist on having a low notch count girl, but can't wait for sex because they are thirsty as fvck, it's funny. It's obvious that they have very little experience with women. Too much red pill stuff.

Patience in dating is the key to get super hot and high quality girls. Top girls don't fvck after a date or two, my experience and I've been with more than a few.

Once you have the abundance mindset, it doesn’t matter when you have sex, the thirst isn’t there.

Most men are thirsty AF. They are thirsty AF because they are not getting laid frequently enough.

I don't think the typical guy cares about a woman's notch count, at least in the short term. Most men are pussie beggars and will take sex with whatever they are able to get. I think a man starts to concern himself with a woman's notch count if he's considering moving in with her or getting legally married to her. It would make sense at that time to be more concerned about that.

I also don't care about how long it takes to get laid in an interaction. I've never had to wait longer than 3 dates to get laid. I have had a lot of "one date, no sex, no second date" type interactions and they were unpleasant. Most of the time, it was because the woman chose not to extend the interaction. As time went on, I started to get more selective about who I offered second dates to.

Most men are not red pill either, The majority of men are blue pilled, average frustrated chump beta males.