"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The 7 Levels of Disrespect taken from Tariq Nasheed”s “The Elite Way”

Blackmm

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1. Combativeness-Level 1


This is when your “Lady” starts being combative just for the sake of being combative example; if you say “I want us to go eat Italian food tonight” she’ll say ; well I want to eat Chinese food! or if you say ,”I want us to watch a Action movie tonight” she’ll say, well I want to watch a Comedy Movie!.


2. Slick comments-Level 2


This is when your “Lady” will say random slick comments when you two have a normal conversation for example ; If you say something like “I’m thinking of writing a book” she’ll say ; yeah right like you could do that . Or “I’m thinking of starting my own business” she’ll say; Yeah right with your dead end job, how are you going to do that.


3. Insults-Level 3


This is when your “Lady” starts attacking your Man-Hood she’ll go for the Gusto too . And say something like ; You’re a little *****, or You’re not a Man you’re a *****, You’re an Idiot etc. She’ll say this with a “Playful” demeanor and a smile on her face, but the more you let this go unchecked watch as her demeanor becomes less and less playful. She’ll test you to see how far she can push the envelope.


4. Public Embarrassment- Level 4


This is when your “Lady” will create a Drama Scene in front of a lot of people at a restaurant , in front of her family, And any social spot; at times she might even hit/slap you because most of the time the Law will side with the Female. And It’s considered somewhat politically incorrect to check a female in public.


5. Slander-Level 5


This is when the Female will throw dirt and salt on your name by saying malicious, false, and defamatory statements or reports of slander against your good name with her friends and family (and even your family). For example, she’ll say something like He’s terrible at sex , He’s such a ***** I cheat on him and he has no idea or , He treats me like an ******* mother ( When in reality It’s her) .


6. Infidelity – Level 6


This is when the female will become so BOLD with her disrespect that she”ll start to have multiple sex partners. At times she”ll even sit there and talk with her “Friend” on the phone in front of you so she can get her weak ego boosted . And at times she might even bring her “Friend ” around you as she watches you clueless while you and her “F-Buddy” share the same vibe in the same room.




7. Set-up for Robbery/Murder –Level 7


This is the most Dangerous of them all by now the guy has to have a clue of what”s going on . (Unless he’s the biggest Simp in the world) This is when the female becomes influenced by the guy/s she’s having sex with and she start to plot for your down-fall and demise. At times she’ll have you set-up to be jumped and robbed by her “F-Buddy’s “ or his friends. It can get so crucial that she might even plot for your Demise. ( We often hear of church going house wives on the news caught trying to hire a hit-man to kill their husband to cash in on the insurance money.)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Chamber36

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u gotta lay down the law!!
 

Strelok

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7 good reasons to keep a belt and a bottle of vodka in the bed room.
 

SharinganUser

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If you need to read an article on the web to know when you are being disrespected, then you have more serious problems than not getting laid.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

49au

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When it gets to #7, perhaps you should be spinning some plates.
 

Delly2000

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The thing is...this is the exact way it goes down more or less.

Its almost like a formula one stage after another. Now some ladies probably just stay in stages 1 to 4 where u become a cuckhold husband. Being that man must suck.

But I think when it starts it just escalates. They just take it further and further.

I just get inscensed thinkng about it man. Like is it suppose to be some joke that your girlfriend brings her lover around you and its some inside joke that he plugging your lady while shaking your hand and smiling in your face. Women...well some of them.
 
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