"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The 7 Levels of Disrespect taken from Tariq Nasheed”s “The Elite Way”

Blackmm

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1. Combativeness-Level 1


This is when your “Lady” starts being combative just for the sake of being combative example; if you say “I want us to go eat Italian food tonight” she’ll say ; well I want to eat Chinese food! or if you say ,”I want us to watch a Action movie tonight” she’ll say, well I want to watch a Comedy Movie!.


2. Slick comments-Level 2


This is when your “Lady” will say random slick comments when you two have a normal conversation for example ; If you say something like “I’m thinking of writing a book” she’ll say ; yeah right like you could do that . Or “I’m thinking of starting my own business” she’ll say; Yeah right with your dead end job, how are you going to do that.


3. Insults-Level 3


This is when your “Lady” starts attacking your Man-Hood she’ll go for the Gusto too . And say something like ; You’re a little *****, or You’re not a Man you’re a *****, You’re an Idiot etc. She’ll say this with a “Playful” demeanor and a smile on her face, but the more you let this go unchecked watch as her demeanor becomes less and less playful. She’ll test you to see how far she can push the envelope.


4. Public Embarrassment- Level 4


This is when your “Lady” will create a Drama Scene in front of a lot of people at a restaurant , in front of her family, And any social spot; at times she might even hit/slap you because most of the time the Law will side with the Female. And It’s considered somewhat politically incorrect to check a female in public.


5. Slander-Level 5


This is when the Female will throw dirt and salt on your name by saying malicious, false, and defamatory statements or reports of slander against your good name with her friends and family (and even your family). For example, she’ll say something like He’s terrible at sex , He’s such a ***** I cheat on him and he has no idea or , He treats me like an ******* mother ( When in reality It’s her) .


6. Infidelity – Level 6


This is when the female will become so BOLD with her disrespect that she”ll start to have multiple sex partners. At times she”ll even sit there and talk with her “Friend” on the phone in front of you so she can get her weak ego boosted . And at times she might even bring her “Friend ” around you as she watches you clueless while you and her “F-Buddy” share the same vibe in the same room.




7. Set-up for Robbery/Murder –Level 7


This is the most Dangerous of them all by now the guy has to have a clue of what”s going on . (Unless he’s the biggest Simp in the world) This is when the female becomes influenced by the guy/s she’s having sex with and she start to plot for your down-fall and demise. At times she’ll have you set-up to be jumped and robbed by her “F-Buddy’s “ or his friends. It can get so crucial that she might even plot for your Demise. ( We often hear of church going house wives on the news caught trying to hire a hit-man to kill their husband to cash in on the insurance money.)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chamber36

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u gotta lay down the law!!
 

Strelok

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7 good reasons to keep a belt and a bottle of vodka in the bed room.
 

SharinganUser

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If you need to read an article on the web to know when you are being disrespected, then you have more serious problems than not getting laid.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When it gets to #7, perhaps you should be spinning some plates.
 

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The thing is...this is the exact way it goes down more or less.

Its almost like a formula one stage after another. Now some ladies probably just stay in stages 1 to 4 where u become a cuckhold husband. Being that man must suck.

But I think when it starts it just escalates. They just take it further and further.

I just get inscensed thinkng about it man. Like is it suppose to be some joke that your girlfriend brings her lover around you and its some inside joke that he plugging your lady while shaking your hand and smiling in your face. Women...well some of them.
 
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