"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The 5 Best Posts of the Forum

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Hello,

Well after I've searched in the forum I saw that there was no topic like that and I thought it should be interesting to give your Top 5 ;)

So what are for you the five best posts of the DJ Tips Forum ?

For me it's,

Weapons of Mass Seduction, by Señor Fingers
Be a Man, by the Pook
15 Lessons, by the Pook
Shattering the limits, by Señor Fingers

Dias ;)
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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That's good but you need to provide links.

I'm not even sure why the DJ Bible isn't linked to SoSuave anymore. I think they screwed up the forum with the last overhaul.
 
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ValleyDJing said:
i only see 4
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That's because this is the fifth haha.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I always find the best advice given in the replies to problems and situations, some gold nuggets in them, field reports are good too.

Most of the tips just seem like a long winded ego trips that say very little with too many words.
 
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Doggystyle said:
Most of the tips just seem like a long winded ego trips that say very little with too many words.
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Yeah, I think that's because of Pook's influence on writing long essays that could have been said much quicker.
 
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That's good but you need to provide links.

I'm not even sure why the DJ Bible isn't linked to SoSuave anymore. I think they screwed up the forum with the last overhaul.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Senor Fingers' posts are better than Pooks because Senor Fingers gives more application to the real world.
 
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