"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The 5 Best Posts of the Forum

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Hello,

Well after I've searched in the forum I saw that there was no topic like that and I thought it should be interesting to give your Top 5 ;)

So what are for you the five best posts of the DJ Tips Forum ?

For me it's,

Weapons of Mass Seduction, by Señor Fingers
Be a Man, by the Pook
15 Lessons, by the Pook
Shattering the limits, by Señor Fingers

Dias ;)
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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That's good but you need to provide links.

I'm not even sure why the DJ Bible isn't linked to SoSuave anymore. I think they screwed up the forum with the last overhaul.
 
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ValleyDJing said:
i only see 4
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That's because this is the fifth haha.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I always find the best advice given in the replies to problems and situations, some gold nuggets in them, field reports are good too.

Most of the tips just seem like a long winded ego trips that say very little with too many words.
 
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Doggystyle said:
Most of the tips just seem like a long winded ego trips that say very little with too many words.
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Yeah, I think that's because of Pook's influence on writing long essays that could have been said much quicker.
 
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Evan_M said:
That's good but you need to provide links.

I'm not even sure why the DJ Bible isn't linked to SoSuave anymore. I think they screwed up the forum with the last overhaul.
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Scroll down to the bottom of your page
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Senor Fingers' posts are better than Pooks because Senor Fingers gives more application to the real world.
 
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