"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The 40 Year Old Virgin movie

FatHairyM4F

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You think the 40 yr old virgin movie changed people's perceptions, and showed that a perfectly normal guy can be past a certain age and not been able to get laid?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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FatHairyM4F said:
You think the 40 yr old virgin movie changed people's perceptions, and showed that a perfectly normal guy can be past a certain age and not been able to get laid?
Uhh....

He character in that movie wasn't "Perfectly Normal".

He collected figurines, didn't drive, and had a phobia of women. That's not perfectly normal.

He also thought t!tties felt like bags of wet sand...:nono:
 

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Lust said:
Uhh....

He character in that movie wasn't "Perfectly Normal".

He collected figurines, didn't drive, and had a phobia of women. That's not perfectly normal.

He also thought t!tties felt like bags of wet sand...:nono:
Well I read a few reviews of the movie and they said the movie did a good job of having this guy be a virgin at 40 without taking the easy way out and painting him as a loser. They created the character as a sympathetic one and not as just one to make fun of. So that's why I asked.
 
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