"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The 4 Class of Man

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Came across this randomly on the internet:

Nice guy:
Makes pleasant conversation with women, but no emotional connection at all. Becomes a good friend.

****y-Funny guy:
Makes a small emotional connection with her, but because he uses superficial emotions to connect with her, he only has light success with women.

Jerk/Bad boy:
Makes deep emotional connections with women, albeit using negative emotions, but negative emotions that reach a subconscious level of connection with her. Has very good success with women, but although the women are attracted, they resist.

The Natural Seducer:
Makes the same deep emotional connections with women as the Jerk, except he uses deep POSITIVE emotions to connect with her on a subconscious level. Has spectacular success with women because the women are drawn in both by the depth of the connection as well as the positive boost of emotion that it brings to their lives. He is both nice to her, but also brings passion into her life.


Those are the four main types of connections we make, and the order that women are seduced by them:

None
Positive/external
Negative/internal
Positive/internal

There is of course negative/external as well, the guy who is just an ass and is repulsive to all women, but that's not really relevant here.


What I realised was, that I used to be the funny ****y guy. Slap on the forehead. But what i still don't understand is:

what does it mean by superficial emotions and deep emotions? examples please...!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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3 bumps and no one gives a f***. Give it up.
 

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This is wrong. The last 3 types are all the same guy.

There is no internal or external connection. It's all stuff that sounds logical, but has no use in real life and game.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Iceberg, Ease's answer was all i wanted to know.

If you don't want to write anything useful, don't waste my time either.

Thanks Ease.
 
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tho ease, im not sure about the funny guy. because it seems to make sense that it was old me. and what do you mean by being logical?
 

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When I clicked on this topic I just thought it was going to be a bunch of BS. However, I actually think there is something to this, I can relate to it fairly well. I know examples of all of these. The last three are definitely not the same guy.
 
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the rest of the post, il post when i have time. But what i found odd was that the def of a natural is:

he generates positive emotions. A jerk gives fluctuations of good and bad. Both provide a deep emotional response. What is this EXACTLY???

the jokey guy gives a superficial response. i.e laughter dies after the person leaves. and life carries on.
 

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I actually think that the jerk is better than the seducer. He gives girls positive and negative emotions, and I think that makes him "feel" more important to them.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The guy that is good with women does not just create positive emotions. A guy that just creates positive emotions is going to be a pus*y.

The guy that is good with girls, is a badboy, he's the man who's in charge of her, and of course he has to sometimes give her cuddles and kisses. He treats her good, he treats her bad, and she loves him. This is the true nature of life.

The stuff in that post is waffle. The difference between external and internal? I'd love to see someone explain what that means. Are you trying to pull a girl at a bar? Make her attracted to you. Spit your game. Make your move. Stuff like this tries to make sense, but it's written by a guy looking at a scenario and trying to logically theorize. It's very wrong in some places.

If you ever want to learn game, read the blogs of smart guys. Roosh, roissy, others.
 
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