"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The 4 Class of Man

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Came across this randomly on the internet:

Nice guy:
Makes pleasant conversation with women, but no emotional connection at all. Becomes a good friend.

****y-Funny guy:
Makes a small emotional connection with her, but because he uses superficial emotions to connect with her, he only has light success with women.

Jerk/Bad boy:
Makes deep emotional connections with women, albeit using negative emotions, but negative emotions that reach a subconscious level of connection with her. Has very good success with women, but although the women are attracted, they resist.

The Natural Seducer:
Makes the same deep emotional connections with women as the Jerk, except he uses deep POSITIVE emotions to connect with her on a subconscious level. Has spectacular success with women because the women are drawn in both by the depth of the connection as well as the positive boost of emotion that it brings to their lives. He is both nice to her, but also brings passion into her life.


Those are the four main types of connections we make, and the order that women are seduced by them:

None
Positive/external
Negative/internal
Positive/internal

There is of course negative/external as well, the guy who is just an ass and is repulsive to all women, but that's not really relevant here.


What I realised was, that I used to be the funny ****y guy. Slap on the forehead. But what i still don't understand is:

what does it mean by superficial emotions and deep emotions? examples please...!!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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3 bumps and no one gives a f***. Give it up.
 

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This is wrong. The last 3 types are all the same guy.

There is no internal or external connection. It's all stuff that sounds logical, but has no use in real life and game.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Iceberg, Ease's answer was all i wanted to know.

If you don't want to write anything useful, don't waste my time either.

Thanks Ease.
 
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tho ease, im not sure about the funny guy. because it seems to make sense that it was old me. and what do you mean by being logical?
 

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When I clicked on this topic I just thought it was going to be a bunch of BS. However, I actually think there is something to this, I can relate to it fairly well. I know examples of all of these. The last three are definitely not the same guy.
 
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the rest of the post, il post when i have time. But what i found odd was that the def of a natural is:

he generates positive emotions. A jerk gives fluctuations of good and bad. Both provide a deep emotional response. What is this EXACTLY???

the jokey guy gives a superficial response. i.e laughter dies after the person leaves. and life carries on.
 

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I actually think that the jerk is better than the seducer. He gives girls positive and negative emotions, and I think that makes him "feel" more important to them.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The guy that is good with women does not just create positive emotions. A guy that just creates positive emotions is going to be a pus*y.

The guy that is good with girls, is a badboy, he's the man who's in charge of her, and of course he has to sometimes give her cuddles and kisses. He treats her good, he treats her bad, and she loves him. This is the true nature of life.

The stuff in that post is waffle. The difference between external and internal? I'd love to see someone explain what that means. Are you trying to pull a girl at a bar? Make her attracted to you. Spit your game. Make your move. Stuff like this tries to make sense, but it's written by a guy looking at a scenario and trying to logically theorize. It's very wrong in some places.

If you ever want to learn game, read the blogs of smart guys. Roosh, roissy, others.
 
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