"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The 4 Class of Man

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Came across this randomly on the internet:

Nice guy:
Makes pleasant conversation with women, but no emotional connection at all. Becomes a good friend.

****y-Funny guy:
Makes a small emotional connection with her, but because he uses superficial emotions to connect with her, he only has light success with women.

Jerk/Bad boy:
Makes deep emotional connections with women, albeit using negative emotions, but negative emotions that reach a subconscious level of connection with her. Has very good success with women, but although the women are attracted, they resist.

The Natural Seducer:
Makes the same deep emotional connections with women as the Jerk, except he uses deep POSITIVE emotions to connect with her on a subconscious level. Has spectacular success with women because the women are drawn in both by the depth of the connection as well as the positive boost of emotion that it brings to their lives. He is both nice to her, but also brings passion into her life.


Those are the four main types of connections we make, and the order that women are seduced by them:

None
Positive/external
Negative/internal
Positive/internal

There is of course negative/external as well, the guy who is just an ass and is repulsive to all women, but that's not really relevant here.


What I realised was, that I used to be the funny ****y guy. Slap on the forehead. But what i still don't understand is:

what does it mean by superficial emotions and deep emotions? examples please...!!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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3 bumps and no one gives a f***. Give it up.
 

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This is wrong. The last 3 types are all the same guy.

There is no internal or external connection. It's all stuff that sounds logical, but has no use in real life and game.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Iceberg, Ease's answer was all i wanted to know.

If you don't want to write anything useful, don't waste my time either.

Thanks Ease.
 
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tho ease, im not sure about the funny guy. because it seems to make sense that it was old me. and what do you mean by being logical?
 

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When I clicked on this topic I just thought it was going to be a bunch of BS. However, I actually think there is something to this, I can relate to it fairly well. I know examples of all of these. The last three are definitely not the same guy.
 
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the rest of the post, il post when i have time. But what i found odd was that the def of a natural is:

he generates positive emotions. A jerk gives fluctuations of good and bad. Both provide a deep emotional response. What is this EXACTLY???

the jokey guy gives a superficial response. i.e laughter dies after the person leaves. and life carries on.
 

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I actually think that the jerk is better than the seducer. He gives girls positive and negative emotions, and I think that makes him "feel" more important to them.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The guy that is good with women does not just create positive emotions. A guy that just creates positive emotions is going to be a pus*y.

The guy that is good with girls, is a badboy, he's the man who's in charge of her, and of course he has to sometimes give her cuddles and kisses. He treats her good, he treats her bad, and she loves him. This is the true nature of life.

The stuff in that post is waffle. The difference between external and internal? I'd love to see someone explain what that means. Are you trying to pull a girl at a bar? Make her attracted to you. Spit your game. Make your move. Stuff like this tries to make sense, but it's written by a guy looking at a scenario and trying to logically theorize. It's very wrong in some places.

If you ever want to learn game, read the blogs of smart guys. Roosh, roissy, others.
 
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