TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Guys, I've been very active in the approach, date, hook up scene the last couple of years like a lot of you aswell.
I've used the 3 strike rule when I couldn't gauge a girl's real interest level. Now that I am more experienced I can tell when a girl is really attracted to me and give her more chances before nexting when she is declining date offers.
Ofcourse we know the standard rules like: Anything other then a yes is a low interest case and no counter offer is a dead cause.
Anyway, we do this to protect ourselves from neediness and being active on spinning plates.
Now my question.
Let's say, she's fluctuaed attracted to you(or it is less then before), you made out or even hooked up or theres an ex or better option for her in the picture and she declined your date offer.
Howmany times and in what time rate would you try it again and why would you do it and why not?
When will your date offers become ''needy'' and how could you stay a challenge while your asking her out?
I see some of my natural DJ buddies have a encounter with a very hot chick then are capable to completely not text or call her and just wait until they meet again randomly (even months later) to hook up again. I know this works but me as a DJ want to find out if I could take her out sooner.
Anyway 3 strikes in 3 weeks is needy or normal? Or do you guys move on after one strike.
To be honest, girls are emotional.. sometimes she feels tired, fat, ugly, she just wants to eat chocolate and watch gossip girl with wine and her cat and then declines your offer.
Then again she would counter offer for a week later because she doens't want to lose you to another woman.
So what's your experience in asking a girl out compared to not coming across as needy and desperate? Ofcourse you are never call for hours or text too much, that's a genuine rule.
I've used the 3 strike rule when I couldn't gauge a girl's real interest level. Now that I am more experienced I can tell when a girl is really attracted to me and give her more chances before nexting when she is declining date offers.
Ofcourse we know the standard rules like: Anything other then a yes is a low interest case and no counter offer is a dead cause.
Anyway, we do this to protect ourselves from neediness and being active on spinning plates.
Now my question.
Let's say, she's fluctuaed attracted to you(or it is less then before), you made out or even hooked up or theres an ex or better option for her in the picture and she declined your date offer.
Howmany times and in what time rate would you try it again and why would you do it and why not?
When will your date offers become ''needy'' and how could you stay a challenge while your asking her out?
I see some of my natural DJ buddies have a encounter with a very hot chick then are capable to completely not text or call her and just wait until they meet again randomly (even months later) to hook up again. I know this works but me as a DJ want to find out if I could take her out sooner.
Anyway 3 strikes in 3 weeks is needy or normal? Or do you guys move on after one strike.
To be honest, girls are emotional.. sometimes she feels tired, fat, ugly, she just wants to eat chocolate and watch gossip girl with wine and her cat and then declines your offer.
Then again she would counter offer for a week later because she doens't want to lose you to another woman.
So what's your experience in asking a girl out compared to not coming across as needy and desperate? Ofcourse you are never call for hours or text too much, that's a genuine rule.
