"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The 2008 Don Juan Bootcamp

Al Moh.

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Everyone should be able to find the new week 4 thread now. So here is the score:

Group Blue - 16
Group Gold - 14
Group Green - 11
Group Red - still 8... Group red is done now, noone left :(
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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suavesuave

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i wanna join.
 

DJ Snake Eyes

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I just remembered this. I moved house and my internet connection was killed off for a good 2 months. I also had visa issues to deal with and I kept going to London to and fro for a good while so I absolutely had no time to fix the internet connection (It's in my father's name and he's on holiday in Africa), I hope its not too late to join in.:cool:
 

Al Moh.

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I think this no longer has to be a sticky, the only two members left should be able to find their thread, otherwise PM me. I'd like to thank the mods for their support and hope that everyone got at least a little bit out of this BC experience. Even if you didn't come very far, you still accomplished something. Stay positive, keep trying and remember that there is no shame in failing, just in not trying.

Al Moh. out...
 

SoIN

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Hey, I'm very new to this fourm only a couple days, but I would love to give this a shot. Is there anymore guys that would like to start a round two? I could just do this bymyself but I feel with more people doing it people would compete more and then you have other people with the same feelings as you so you can discuss them.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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