"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The 2008 Don Juan Bootcamp

Al Moh.

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Everyone should be able to find the new week 4 thread now. So here is the score:

Group Blue - 16
Group Gold - 14
Group Green - 11
Group Red - still 8... Group red is done now, noone left :(
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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suavesuave

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i wanna join.
 

DJ Snake Eyes

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I just remembered this. I moved house and my internet connection was killed off for a good 2 months. I also had visa issues to deal with and I kept going to London to and fro for a good while so I absolutely had no time to fix the internet connection (It's in my father's name and he's on holiday in Africa), I hope its not too late to join in.:cool:
 

Al Moh.

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I think this no longer has to be a sticky, the only two members left should be able to find their thread, otherwise PM me. I'd like to thank the mods for their support and hope that everyone got at least a little bit out of this BC experience. Even if you didn't come very far, you still accomplished something. Stay positive, keep trying and remember that there is no shame in failing, just in not trying.

Al Moh. out...
 

SoIN

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Hey, I'm very new to this fourm only a couple days, but I would love to give this a shot. Is there anymore guys that would like to start a round two? I could just do this bymyself but I feel with more people doing it people would compete more and then you have other people with the same feelings as you so you can discuss them.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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