"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The 2008 Don Juan Bootcamp

Al Moh.

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Everyone should be able to find the new week 4 thread now. So here is the score:

Group Blue - 16
Group Gold - 14
Group Green - 11
Group Red - still 8... Group red is done now, noone left :(
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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suavesuave

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i wanna join.
 

DJ Snake Eyes

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I just remembered this. I moved house and my internet connection was killed off for a good 2 months. I also had visa issues to deal with and I kept going to London to and fro for a good while so I absolutely had no time to fix the internet connection (It's in my father's name and he's on holiday in Africa), I hope its not too late to join in.:cool:
 

Al Moh.

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I think this no longer has to be a sticky, the only two members left should be able to find their thread, otherwise PM me. I'd like to thank the mods for their support and hope that everyone got at least a little bit out of this BC experience. Even if you didn't come very far, you still accomplished something. Stay positive, keep trying and remember that there is no shame in failing, just in not trying.

Al Moh. out...
 

SoIN

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Hey, I'm very new to this fourm only a couple days, but I would love to give this a shot. Is there anymore guys that would like to start a round two? I could just do this bymyself but I feel with more people doing it people would compete more and then you have other people with the same feelings as you so you can discuss them.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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