"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The 2 types of girls

Don_Joffe

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There are 2 types of woman:
Taker and Giver.

Taker: Take from the taker. These woman are attractive and get shown lots of attention. After talking to her you should know if she is a taker or a giver. When she starts boasting and bragging this shows she is a taker. You must treat her differently, you need to start taking from her as the taker.

Giver: This type of woman would do anything for you and because she is a giver we tend to be rude to her but instead we should rather start giving to her. She will remember all the small things you did for her and appreciate it alot.

IF you can tell which is which, it should make your days easier.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good point, but beware of the taker who poses as the giver - the girl who will do anything for you until you start showing her too much attention, and then she takes all she can get.
 

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The 2 types of woman’s behaviour are:

Stroked - She loves a challenge and is always showered with compliments. She responds more when she doesnt get an immediate acceptance from a man. She plays games of hard to get and has a ****y attitude.

Unstroked - These woman didnt get shown much attention and are only 20% of all woman. When a woman ends a relationship she often comes to be unstroked to get her self-esteem back up.

Instead of a giver and taker we can have the stroked as a taker and the unstroked as the giver.
 

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Originally posted by Jariel
Good point, but beware of the taker who poses as the giver - the girl who will do anything for you until you start showing her too much attention, and then she takes all she can get.
You are so right bro. This describes my ex fiance to a T. She came off as someone who'd give you the shirt off her back, but when I started treating her great in return, she took my money and ran.

It goes to show, women say they want to be treated good, but when you do, they just shyt on you.

Look out for yourself, and never treat any girl "too good"
 

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All women are takers, they turn into givers once they know YOU are not a giver. Think about it, humans want to TAKE what they can't take, wanting something can make them GIVE anything just to have it. Nobody is ever willing to give something because they're "nice", there's always a hidden motive. Yes, with women too.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by n00bPimp
All women are takers, they turn into givers once they know YOU are not a giver.
great point made, everyone should remember this.
 
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