"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The 2 types of girls

Don_Joffe

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There are 2 types of woman:
Taker and Giver.

Taker: Take from the taker. These woman are attractive and get shown lots of attention. After talking to her you should know if she is a taker or a giver. When she starts boasting and bragging this shows she is a taker. You must treat her differently, you need to start taking from her as the taker.

Giver: This type of woman would do anything for you and because she is a giver we tend to be rude to her but instead we should rather start giving to her. She will remember all the small things you did for her and appreciate it alot.

IF you can tell which is which, it should make your days easier.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jariel

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Good point, but beware of the taker who poses as the giver - the girl who will do anything for you until you start showing her too much attention, and then she takes all she can get.
 

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The 2 types of woman’s behaviour are:

Stroked - She loves a challenge and is always showered with compliments. She responds more when she doesnt get an immediate acceptance from a man. She plays games of hard to get and has a ****y attitude.

Unstroked - These woman didnt get shown much attention and are only 20% of all woman. When a woman ends a relationship she often comes to be unstroked to get her self-esteem back up.

Instead of a giver and taker we can have the stroked as a taker and the unstroked as the giver.
 

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Originally posted by Jariel
Good point, but beware of the taker who poses as the giver - the girl who will do anything for you until you start showing her too much attention, and then she takes all she can get.
You are so right bro. This describes my ex fiance to a T. She came off as someone who'd give you the shirt off her back, but when I started treating her great in return, she took my money and ran.

It goes to show, women say they want to be treated good, but when you do, they just shyt on you.

Look out for yourself, and never treat any girl "too good"
 

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All women are takers, they turn into givers once they know YOU are not a giver. Think about it, humans want to TAKE what they can't take, wanting something can make them GIVE anything just to have it. Nobody is ever willing to give something because they're "nice", there's always a hidden motive. Yes, with women too.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ScrewIt

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Originally posted by n00bPimp
All women are takers, they turn into givers once they know YOU are not a giver.
great point made, everyone should remember this.
 
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