"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The 2 types of girls

Don_Joffe

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There are 2 types of woman:
Taker and Giver.

Taker: Take from the taker. These woman are attractive and get shown lots of attention. After talking to her you should know if she is a taker or a giver. When she starts boasting and bragging this shows she is a taker. You must treat her differently, you need to start taking from her as the taker.

Giver: This type of woman would do anything for you and because she is a giver we tend to be rude to her but instead we should rather start giving to her. She will remember all the small things you did for her and appreciate it alot.

IF you can tell which is which, it should make your days easier.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jariel

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Good point, but beware of the taker who poses as the giver - the girl who will do anything for you until you start showing her too much attention, and then she takes all she can get.
 

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The 2 types of woman’s behaviour are:

Stroked - She loves a challenge and is always showered with compliments. She responds more when she doesnt get an immediate acceptance from a man. She plays games of hard to get and has a ****y attitude.

Unstroked - These woman didnt get shown much attention and are only 20% of all woman. When a woman ends a relationship she often comes to be unstroked to get her self-esteem back up.

Instead of a giver and taker we can have the stroked as a taker and the unstroked as the giver.
 

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Originally posted by Jariel
Good point, but beware of the taker who poses as the giver - the girl who will do anything for you until you start showing her too much attention, and then she takes all she can get.
You are so right bro. This describes my ex fiance to a T. She came off as someone who'd give you the shirt off her back, but when I started treating her great in return, she took my money and ran.

It goes to show, women say they want to be treated good, but when you do, they just shyt on you.

Look out for yourself, and never treat any girl "too good"
 

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All women are takers, they turn into givers once they know YOU are not a giver. Think about it, humans want to TAKE what they can't take, wanting something can make them GIVE anything just to have it. Nobody is ever willing to give something because they're "nice", there's always a hidden motive. Yes, with women too.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by n00bPimp
All women are takers, they turn into givers once they know YOU are not a giver.
great point made, everyone should remember this.
 
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