"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The 1000lb club

Drum&Bass

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Just got my membership this week.

Squat - 315
Deadlift - 475
Bench Press - 225

my goals are still the same, 500 deadlift, 405, squat and 315 bench. Feels good to know im on track.

Anyone else make it into the 1000lb club yet ??

How does it feel and whats your next set of goals ?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Da Realist

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Most recent:
Squat:500
Deadlift:405
Bench: 390

It's changed over the years, but I smashed through that in my junior year in high school.
 

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Drum&Bass said:
Just got my membership this week.

Squat - 315
Deadlift - 475
Bench Press - 225

my goals are still the same, 500 deadlift, 405, squat and 315 bench. Feels good to know im on track.

Anyone else make it into the 1000lb club yet ??

How does it feel and whats your next set of goals ?
How many reps can you do with this weight?
 

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1 rep maxes sir,
i can actually squat and bench those weights for more than 1 rep but my deadlift was what got me in.
 
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Good work, congratulations.
I got a ways to go, my damn bench is what keeps me down.

Your deadlift is impressive.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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bench was a slow progression for me as well, I prioritized by doing push ups, weighted pushups, hand stand push ups and decline push ups at home every hour on my off chest days.

Try doing some exercises like 25 - 50 decline pushups at home every few days, every hour for the whole day.

This alone will bring your bench up better than any weight routine you do in the gym.
 

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Congrats!

I'm on 880lb with bodyweight of 136.. slowly working my way there.
 

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hack squat - 700 pounds

flat bench barbell press - 260 pounds

deadlift - 400 pounds

So this puts me in the club, too. It feels good to lift heavy. My goal: to get stronger and stronger and get my weight back down to the 150s class.
 

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put your legs on a chair and hands on the floor.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Huge dead there man.

I'm getting close! Not there yet though.

Squat: 305
Dead: 390
Bench: 230

Total: 925

75 pounds to go... I feel like squat is holding me back more than anything. I overtrained my legs improperly this winter with too much skiing stacked on top of normal lifting.

I just ask because I'm curious, why does it seem like my bench is stronger than a couple of you guys who have huge deadlifts compared to mine?
 

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What is your reach kerpal? I am similar with long arms and I know what you mean about leverage.
 

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Where have you guys been??? Lets race to the 1250 club! :D
 

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Drum&Bass said:
This alone will bring your bench up better than any weight routine you do in the gym.

That's a pretty bold statement.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I-tallionStallion said:
Where have you guys been??? Lets race to the 1250 club!
cool count me in !!!


mrRuckus said:
That's a pretty bold statement.
im an emotional guy and it comes out in my words sometimes. Its not a very good statement but doing push ups at the top of the hour has helped me alot and its one way to improve results.
 

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bump

I want to see more people joining

the ONLY LIFTS THAT COUNT are

Squat
Bench Press
Deadlift
 

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Getting closer but I'm not even close :D

Max squat is probably around 275
Max bench 215
Max deadlift around 350

So I'm at 840. 160 to go :cool:
 

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Getting closer but I'm not even close

Max squat is probably around 275
Max bench 215
Max deadlift around 350

So I'm at 840. 160 to go
keep pushing French !! Dedicate more time to your squats

I want you to go for

325 squat
265 bench
425 deadlift
 

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BUMP

all 100% raw no belts or straps + barefoot

Squat = 365
Deadlift = 500
Bench =275

Total = 1,140

next goals:

Squat: 405
Deadlift: 550
Bench: 300

Total = 1,255
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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