"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The 10 Commandments of Being a DJ

Colossus

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1. Always be improving yourself and your position in life.
2. Never put a woman on a pedestal. You may hold an good woman in esteem, but never place her above yourself.
3. Always weigh her behavior over her words.
4. There are always more women.
5. Knowledge is good, experience is better, both are best.
6. YOU are responsible for leading and holding the frame. If you leave a void she will fill it.
7. Spin plates until you are at least 30 before considering marriage.
8. Never go back to an ex.
9. The only way to get over an ex is to go 100% No Contact.
10. If a woman is not improving your life in the big picture, leave her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mr_Stinky

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Colossus said:
1. Always be improving yourself and your position in life.
2. Never put a woman on a pedestal. You may hold an good woman in esteem, but never place her above yourself.
3. Always weigh her behavior over her words.
4. There are always more women.
5. Knowledge is good, experience is better, both are best.
6. YOU are responsible for leading and holding the frame. If you leave a void she will fill it.
7. Spin plates until you are at least 30 before considering marriage.
8. Never go back to an ex.
9. The only way to get over an ex is to go 100% No Contact.
10. If a woman is not improving your life in the big picture, leave her.
Couldn't agree more!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheCWord

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We should just close off these forums and put up this post on the main page.
 
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