"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The 10 Commandments of Being a DJ

Colossus

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1. Always be improving yourself and your position in life.
2. Never put a woman on a pedestal. You may hold an good woman in esteem, but never place her above yourself.
3. Always weigh her behavior over her words.
4. There are always more women.
5. Knowledge is good, experience is better, both are best.
6. YOU are responsible for leading and holding the frame. If you leave a void she will fill it.
7. Spin plates until you are at least 30 before considering marriage.
8. Never go back to an ex.
9. The only way to get over an ex is to go 100% No Contact.
10. If a woman is not improving your life in the big picture, leave her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mr_Stinky

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Colossus said:
1. Always be improving yourself and your position in life.
2. Never put a woman on a pedestal. You may hold an good woman in esteem, but never place her above yourself.
3. Always weigh her behavior over her words.
4. There are always more women.
5. Knowledge is good, experience is better, both are best.
6. YOU are responsible for leading and holding the frame. If you leave a void she will fill it.
7. Spin plates until you are at least 30 before considering marriage.
8. Never go back to an ex.
9. The only way to get over an ex is to go 100% No Contact.
10. If a woman is not improving your life in the big picture, leave her.
Couldn't agree more!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TheCWord

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We should just close off these forums and put up this post on the main page.
 
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