"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The 10 Commandments Of A Pickup Artist

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THE 10 COMMANDMENTS OF ANY DJ/PICKUP ARTIST/PLAYER

1-LOVE THYSELF FIRST-modern day translation-inner game must be in place.

2-THOU SHALL NOT PART WITH MONEY TO GAIN APPROVAL-NEVER compensate for no game with gifts/paying for dinner/drinks.... it very seldom lasts.

3-THOU SHALL NOT COVET ONE WOMAN-translation: avoid one-i-tis at all costs......at least at the begining.

4-THOU SHALL BE A MAN-translation:don't call or text 10-50 times a day, date others, have a life outside of her, stop being a wuss.

5-THOU SHALL EXUDE CONFIDENCE-translation: show your authority by being true to who you are in that specific moment....even if you gotta fake it.

6-THOU SHALL USE HUMOR-no translation required.........Hey Jesus walked on water so can you........just make sure it's winter time......water freezes. If memory serves did he not rise from erection at some point.

7-THOU SHALL BUILD RAPPORT-translation its pronounced "rappore"...the jist of it is you gotta gain their respect and bestow your confidence onto them before you seduce 'em.

8-THOU SHALL USE KINO-translation: escalate to the next level (getting closer to having them get naked for you.....without your credit card info) is done by the first touch. Google Oxytocin and its effects on the body.

9-THOU SHALL MAKE THE FIRST MOVE-translation: active dis-interest goes a long way in getting them to chase you.

10-THOU SHALL BE REJECTION PROOF-translation: basically means if you get rejected you need to be uneffected by it. Reframe each rejection as a step closer to fine tuning your approach.

OBEY THY COMMANDMENTS AND ONE WILL SEE IMPROVEMENT OVER TIME

TRANSLATION-get off your butt and get some tail.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I AM JESUS CHRIST AND I APPROVE OF THIS MESSAGE!!!


..............rose from erection hahaha.........its ressurection numb nuts......oh that was an example of ancient humor.......my bad.....don't be crossed with me........I gotta go nail some hotties.........later!
 

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Like it... like it a lot, but sure I have read it before somewhere else recently1
 

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Nice job man, keep it up.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Amazing post
 

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Great post, The first one is the most important i would say ... All the others would fall into place.
 

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COD said:
THE 10 COMMANDMENTS OF ANY DJ/PICKUP ARTIST/PLAYER

1-LOVE THYSELF FIRST-modern day translation-inner game must be in place.

2-THOU SHALL NOT PART WITH MONEY TO GAIN APPROVAL-NEVER compensate for no game with gifts/paying for dinner/drinks.... it very seldom lasts.

3-THOU SHALL NOT COVET ONE WOMAN-translation: avoid one-i-tis at all costs......at least at the begining.

4-THOU SHALL BE A MAN-translation:don't call or text 10-50 times a day, date others, have a life outside of her, stop being a wuss.

5-THOU SHALL EXUDE CONFIDENCE-translation: show your authority by being true to who you are in that specific moment....even if you gotta fake it.

6-THOU SHALL USE HUMOR-no translation required.........Hey Jesus walked on water so can you........just make sure it's winter time......water freezes. If memory serves did he not rise from erection at some point.

7-THOU SHALL BUILD RAPPORT-translation its pronounced "rappore"...the jist of it is you gotta gain their respect and bestow your confidence onto them before you seduce 'em.

8-THOU SHALL USE KINO-translation: escalate to the next level (getting closer to having them get naked for you.....without your credit card info) is done by the first touch. Google Oxytocin and its effects on the body.

9-THOU SHALL MAKE THE FIRST MOVE-translation: active dis-interest goes a long way in getting them to chase you.

10-THOU SHALL BE REJECTION PROOF-translation: basically means if you get rejected you need to be uneffected by it. Reframe each rejection as a step closer to fine tuning your approach.

OBEY THY COMMANDMENTS AND ONE WILL SEE IMPROVEMENT OVER TIME

TRANSLATION-get off your butt and get some tail.
And above all thou shall not make women his only purpose in life.

All that garbage is for PUA and players who in my book are useless people end of story.

PUA goes around picking up women as in their previous experience with women they were the AFC loser and now just want to get even. Or they just don't have enough hobbies in life to focus on something more rewarding then coming up with ways to pick up women.

Players are guys that don't have the balls to spin multiple plates and tell the women they are dating that they have other options available as it suits their lifestyle.

Okay lets see the flames come in :)
 

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hmmm interesting, I was merely trying to capsulate some basic foundations in a humorous way so that we could incorporate these "laws" into our sedction tactics.

If you look at them, read a few times they actually do make good a few good points. You gotta have some rules inwhich you live your life by.....break the rules you pay the price. NUFF SAID............

oh by the way..........they are NOT paved in stone............yet!!!
 

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COD said:
hmmm interesting, I was merely trying to capsulate some basic foundations in a humorous way so that we could incorporate these "laws" into our sedction tactics.

If you look at them, read a few times they actually do make good a few good points. You gotta have some rules inwhich you live your life by.....break the rules you pay the price. NUFF SAID............

oh by the way..........they are NOT paved in stone............yet!!!
I know me and you are on the same page mate but the masses here are well quite deluded in alot of things and will take what you said in the wrong way.

I know your just trying to give some of the slackers a kickstart :), some things they just have to learn the hard way
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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