"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The 10 Commandments Of A Pickup Artist

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THE 10 COMMANDMENTS OF ANY DJ/PICKUP ARTIST/PLAYER

1-LOVE THYSELF FIRST-modern day translation-inner game must be in place.

2-THOU SHALL NOT PART WITH MONEY TO GAIN APPROVAL-NEVER compensate for no game with gifts/paying for dinner/drinks.... it very seldom lasts.

3-THOU SHALL NOT COVET ONE WOMAN-translation: avoid one-i-tis at all costs......at least at the begining.

4-THOU SHALL BE A MAN-translation:don't call or text 10-50 times a day, date others, have a life outside of her, stop being a wuss.

5-THOU SHALL EXUDE CONFIDENCE-translation: show your authority by being true to who you are in that specific moment....even if you gotta fake it.

6-THOU SHALL USE HUMOR-no translation required.........Hey Jesus walked on water so can you........just make sure it's winter time......water freezes. If memory serves did he not rise from erection at some point.

7-THOU SHALL BUILD RAPPORT-translation its pronounced "rappore"...the jist of it is you gotta gain their respect and bestow your confidence onto them before you seduce 'em.

8-THOU SHALL USE KINO-translation: escalate to the next level (getting closer to having them get naked for you.....without your credit card info) is done by the first touch. Google Oxytocin and its effects on the body.

9-THOU SHALL MAKE THE FIRST MOVE-translation: active dis-interest goes a long way in getting them to chase you.

10-THOU SHALL BE REJECTION PROOF-translation: basically means if you get rejected you need to be uneffected by it. Reframe each rejection as a step closer to fine tuning your approach.

OBEY THY COMMANDMENTS AND ONE WILL SEE IMPROVEMENT OVER TIME

TRANSLATION-get off your butt and get some tail.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I AM JESUS CHRIST AND I APPROVE OF THIS MESSAGE!!!


..............rose from erection hahaha.........its ressurection numb nuts......oh that was an example of ancient humor.......my bad.....don't be crossed with me........I gotta go nail some hotties.........later!
 

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Like it... like it a lot, but sure I have read it before somewhere else recently1
 

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Nice job man, keep it up.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Amazing post
 

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Great post, The first one is the most important i would say ... All the others would fall into place.
 

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COD said:
THE 10 COMMANDMENTS OF ANY DJ/PICKUP ARTIST/PLAYER

1-LOVE THYSELF FIRST-modern day translation-inner game must be in place.

2-THOU SHALL NOT PART WITH MONEY TO GAIN APPROVAL-NEVER compensate for no game with gifts/paying for dinner/drinks.... it very seldom lasts.

3-THOU SHALL NOT COVET ONE WOMAN-translation: avoid one-i-tis at all costs......at least at the begining.

4-THOU SHALL BE A MAN-translation:don't call or text 10-50 times a day, date others, have a life outside of her, stop being a wuss.

5-THOU SHALL EXUDE CONFIDENCE-translation: show your authority by being true to who you are in that specific moment....even if you gotta fake it.

6-THOU SHALL USE HUMOR-no translation required.........Hey Jesus walked on water so can you........just make sure it's winter time......water freezes. If memory serves did he not rise from erection at some point.

7-THOU SHALL BUILD RAPPORT-translation its pronounced "rappore"...the jist of it is you gotta gain their respect and bestow your confidence onto them before you seduce 'em.

8-THOU SHALL USE KINO-translation: escalate to the next level (getting closer to having them get naked for you.....without your credit card info) is done by the first touch. Google Oxytocin and its effects on the body.

9-THOU SHALL MAKE THE FIRST MOVE-translation: active dis-interest goes a long way in getting them to chase you.

10-THOU SHALL BE REJECTION PROOF-translation: basically means if you get rejected you need to be uneffected by it. Reframe each rejection as a step closer to fine tuning your approach.

OBEY THY COMMANDMENTS AND ONE WILL SEE IMPROVEMENT OVER TIME

TRANSLATION-get off your butt and get some tail.
And above all thou shall not make women his only purpose in life.

All that garbage is for PUA and players who in my book are useless people end of story.

PUA goes around picking up women as in their previous experience with women they were the AFC loser and now just want to get even. Or they just don't have enough hobbies in life to focus on something more rewarding then coming up with ways to pick up women.

Players are guys that don't have the balls to spin multiple plates and tell the women they are dating that they have other options available as it suits their lifestyle.

Okay lets see the flames come in :)
 

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hmmm interesting, I was merely trying to capsulate some basic foundations in a humorous way so that we could incorporate these "laws" into our sedction tactics.

If you look at them, read a few times they actually do make good a few good points. You gotta have some rules inwhich you live your life by.....break the rules you pay the price. NUFF SAID............

oh by the way..........they are NOT paved in stone............yet!!!
 

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COD said:
hmmm interesting, I was merely trying to capsulate some basic foundations in a humorous way so that we could incorporate these "laws" into our sedction tactics.

If you look at them, read a few times they actually do make good a few good points. You gotta have some rules inwhich you live your life by.....break the rules you pay the price. NUFF SAID............

oh by the way..........they are NOT paved in stone............yet!!!
I know me and you are on the same page mate but the masses here are well quite deluded in alot of things and will take what you said in the wrong way.

I know your just trying to give some of the slackers a kickstart :), some things they just have to learn the hard way
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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