"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The #1 Attraction Killer

ChalengeGuyFan

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I have been perceived in multiple way throughout time.
I've been seen as indifferent, mysterious, nerdy, nice, ****y, good looking, ugly, you name it.
I have been a leech to the group, a lone wolf, one of the guys who's the life of the group, or one of the regular guys.

Most of the times I did have something going on for me, because in most situations a chick dig me to some degree. Yeah, it has not always been the best looking of the lot, nor the most interesting, but there have been quite a few: regular chicks, nerdy ones, hot ones, hottest ones, the shy type and so on and so forth.

Regardless of the dominant trait that I exhibited and regardless of the girl who had been attracted to me, the one thing that quickly killed that attraction was always the same: I showed them that I was a pvssy.
How I did it: I was afraid to express myself, to talk to them or to escalate physically.

Moral of the story: never be a pvssy.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I swear, I read this same message every other day here just worded differently ...
 

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Ruler said:
Because it's all the same. Being a man is the thing that will get you far with women, more than any other technique. How do you do this? Trust your gut and use your instincts. Feel like she wants a kiss? Go for it. If she's out on a date with you and she's laughing, she likes you and will want a kiss. Don't be nervous and second guessing yourself, and most importantly don't be outcome dependent. It does not matter what happens after, it's just a woman not a judging on your life.
good tips, thanks :up:
 

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Ruler said:
Because it's all the same. Being a man is the thing that will get you far with women, more than any other technique. How do you do this? Trust your gut and use your instincts. Feel like she wants a kiss? Go for it. If she's out on a date with you and she's laughing, she likes you and will want a kiss. Don't be nervous and second guessing yourself, and most importantly don't be outcome dependent. It does not matter what happens after, it's just a woman not a judging on your life.
theres something fishy about a 18yr old spilling lines like these :)

thats beyond well said bud, i honestly think you should elaborate (4fun) and fire up a thread!
 

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icantgetlaid said:
I swear, I read this same message every other day here just worded differently ...
I am stating the main issue of most guys who can't hook up.

Yeah, it's been said before with different wording, but it's always derailing into badboy vs nice guy debates and so on.

Of course those things matter, but the one thing that would skyrocket everyone's success is not being a pvssy.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This is actually pretty good advice. Never be to shy to make a move with a girl. Shows insecurity and beta traits.
 

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Never be boring either.

but to be fair, most women find ***** men boring anyway.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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