"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have been perceived in multiple way throughout time.
I've been seen as indifferent, mysterious, nerdy, nice, ****y, good looking, ugly, you name it.
I have been a leech to the group, a lone wolf, one of the guys who's the life of the group, or one of the regular guys.

Most of the times I did have something going on for me, because in most situations a chick dig me to some degree. Yeah, it has not always been the best looking of the lot, nor the most interesting, but there have been quite a few: regular chicks, nerdy ones, hot ones, hottest ones, the shy type and so on and so forth.

Regardless of the dominant trait that I exhibited and regardless of the girl who had been attracted to me, the one thing that quickly killed that attraction was always the same: I showed them that I was a pvssy.
How I did it: I was afraid to express myself, to talk to them or to escalate physically.

Moral of the story: never be a pvssy.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I swear, I read this same message every other day here just worded differently ...
 
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Ruler said:
Because it's all the same. Being a man is the thing that will get you far with women, more than any other technique. How do you do this? Trust your gut and use your instincts. Feel like she wants a kiss? Go for it. If she's out on a date with you and she's laughing, she likes you and will want a kiss. Don't be nervous and second guessing yourself, and most importantly don't be outcome dependent. It does not matter what happens after, it's just a woman not a judging on your life.
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good tips, thanks :up:
 
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Ruler said:
Because it's all the same. Being a man is the thing that will get you far with women, more than any other technique. How do you do this? Trust your gut and use your instincts. Feel like she wants a kiss? Go for it. If she's out on a date with you and she's laughing, she likes you and will want a kiss. Don't be nervous and second guessing yourself, and most importantly don't be outcome dependent. It does not matter what happens after, it's just a woman not a judging on your life.
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theres something fishy about a 18yr old spilling lines like these :)

thats beyond well said bud, i honestly think you should elaborate (4fun) and fire up a thread!
 
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icantgetlaid said:
I swear, I read this same message every other day here just worded differently ...
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I am stating the main issue of most guys who can't hook up.

Yeah, it's been said before with different wording, but it's always derailing into badboy vs nice guy debates and so on.

Of course those things matter, but the one thing that would skyrocket everyone's success is not being a pvssy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This is actually pretty good advice. Never be to shy to make a move with a girl. Shows insecurity and beta traits.
 
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Never be boring either.

but to be fair, most women find ***** men boring anyway.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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