"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The #1 Attraction Killer

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I have been perceived in multiple way throughout time.
I've been seen as indifferent, mysterious, nerdy, nice, ****y, good looking, ugly, you name it.
I have been a leech to the group, a lone wolf, one of the guys who's the life of the group, or one of the regular guys.

Most of the times I did have something going on for me, because in most situations a chick dig me to some degree. Yeah, it has not always been the best looking of the lot, nor the most interesting, but there have been quite a few: regular chicks, nerdy ones, hot ones, hottest ones, the shy type and so on and so forth.

Regardless of the dominant trait that I exhibited and regardless of the girl who had been attracted to me, the one thing that quickly killed that attraction was always the same: I showed them that I was a pvssy.
How I did it: I was afraid to express myself, to talk to them or to escalate physically.

Moral of the story: never be a pvssy.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I swear, I read this same message every other day here just worded differently ...
 
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Ruler said:
Because it's all the same. Being a man is the thing that will get you far with women, more than any other technique. How do you do this? Trust your gut and use your instincts. Feel like she wants a kiss? Go for it. If she's out on a date with you and she's laughing, she likes you and will want a kiss. Don't be nervous and second guessing yourself, and most importantly don't be outcome dependent. It does not matter what happens after, it's just a woman not a judging on your life.
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good tips, thanks :up:
 
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Ruler said:
Because it's all the same. Being a man is the thing that will get you far with women, more than any other technique. How do you do this? Trust your gut and use your instincts. Feel like she wants a kiss? Go for it. If she's out on a date with you and she's laughing, she likes you and will want a kiss. Don't be nervous and second guessing yourself, and most importantly don't be outcome dependent. It does not matter what happens after, it's just a woman not a judging on your life.
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theres something fishy about a 18yr old spilling lines like these :)

thats beyond well said bud, i honestly think you should elaborate (4fun) and fire up a thread!
 
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icantgetlaid said:
I swear, I read this same message every other day here just worded differently ...
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I am stating the main issue of most guys who can't hook up.

Yeah, it's been said before with different wording, but it's always derailing into badboy vs nice guy debates and so on.

Of course those things matter, but the one thing that would skyrocket everyone's success is not being a pvssy.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This is actually pretty good advice. Never be to shy to make a move with a girl. Shows insecurity and beta traits.
 
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Never be boring either.

but to be fair, most women find ***** men boring anyway.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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