"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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That's chick's profile on myspace.

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LMAO look what I read on one of these girls' profile :

"TO NICE GUYS!

you know how girls always claim they want a "nice guy" then they are dating a total *******?! well im the complete opposite~i really do want a nice guy. the kind of guy that will go shopping with me and wont complain that we have been in abercrombie for 2 hours just because he likes to be with me. Or the kind of guy that notices the little beauty marks on my face or that i did my hair/makeup different. I want the kind of guy that when hes hangin with his boys when i walk up he says "thats her". Guys u all claim to be good guys and genuine but cmon cut the bull**** be who you are. Being fake is less attractive than if u really are just an ass. I want the kind of guy who lets me be with his girls and i love when hes with his boys and when we come together its like we have been away for months. One who treats people like people and not just another betty from the street. BE REAL!! thats all im sayin!"

just thought i'd share a little bit of humor w/ y'all
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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so basically she wants a homo friend.
 

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Yes, she is hot! that's why I think its B.S. usually the only girls that actually want nice guys are usually unattractive
 

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You all need to open up...
Sure the majority it's BS but theres always the outliers or ones that dont quite fit the circle.

Sure why cant it be possible?

Sry Devils Advocate is my speciality
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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the day i become a woman worshipping nice guy is when all women cook like pros and provide awesome b lowjobs without asking, daily.
 

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its a test she trying to see who gonna have the gull to be an ass and thats the dude that get the ass
 

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Originally posted by lnghrngeek
trust me, this girl may say she wants a nice guy, but in reality she blows off & rejects the nice guys all the time and always ends up going for the jerk
"Jerk" and "Nice Guy" are entirely the wrong words to use in these types of situations...these words are rationalizations used by the people who always fail.

Instead of "Nice Guy" substitute "Doormat": a guy who will bend over backwards just for the HINT of a chance of getting together with some girl. The kind of guy who will drop everything he is doing to go and listen for 2 hours on the phone to her problems and never get any closer to his goal of being with her. Despite what you might interpret the wants/needs of a woman to be, no woman wants to be dating a doormat. They use doormats to wipe their feet before they go into the house and **** their boyfriends.

Instead of "Jerk" substitute: "Cool and Confident Guy". The kind of guy who understands who and what he is, is not afraid to go after what he wants, does not fear failure and understands that by allowing his fear to control him that he never moves forward or grows as a person. He is interpreted as a "Jerk" by those who envy his attitude and what the attitude earns him because they do not comprehend the difference between confidence and arrogance. They also do not understand that HE is what women want as opposed to the doormat that they aspire to be when they have an opportunity to be with women.
 

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
Guys u all claim to be good guys and genuine but cmon cut the bull**** be who you are. Being fake is less attractive than if u really are just an ass.

okay, I don't know about all of you, but the way I interpretted her "journal entry" was that she DOESN"T WANT a nice guy. She was being very sarcastic for the whole paragraph about wanting a guy to be her footrest, and then she says "cmon cut the bull*** be who you are".
 

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and as an aside, when you guys say myspace, do you mean the myspace.com website or the MSN messenger myspace?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
LMAO look what I read on one of these girls' profile :

"TO NICE GUYS!

you know how girls always claim they want a "nice guy" then they are dating a total *******?! well im the complete opposite~i really do want a nice guy. the kind of guy that will go shopping with me and wont complain that we have been in abercrombie for 2 hours just because he likes to be with me. Or the kind of guy that notices the little beauty marks on my face or that i did my hair/makeup different. I want the kind of guy that when hes hangin with his boys when i walk up he says "thats her". Guys u all claim to be good guys and genuine but cmon cut the bull**** be who you are. Being fake is less attractive than if u really are just an ass. I want the kind of guy who lets me be with his girls and i love when hes with his boys and when we come together its like we have been away for months. One who treats people like people and not just another betty from the street. BE REAL!! thats all im sayin!"

just thought i'd share a little bit of humor w/ y'all
Every girl says that exact same thing. They will never fall for that guy.
 

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Originally posted by I_Only_Live_Once
and as an aside, when you guys say myspace, do you mean the myspace.com website or the MSN messenger myspace?
generally people will be speaking about myspace.com
 

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Originally posted by Kaparski
You all need to open up...
Sure the majority it's BS but theres always the outliers or ones that dont quite fit the circle.

Sure why cant it be possible?

Sry Devils Advocate is my speciality
sure, anything in this world is possible, but what are the odds? A hot girl, who's gonna get a guy who puts her on a pedastal and she'd appreciate that? I know I'm still relatively young but I seen enough to know when something just doesn't seem right.
 

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Re: Re: That's chick's profile on myspace.

Originally posted by I_Only_Live_Once
okay, I don't know about all of you, but the way I interpretted her "journal entry" was that she DOESN"T WANT a nice guy. She was being very sarcastic for the whole paragraph about wanting a guy to be her footrest, and then she says "cmon cut the bull*** be who you are".
Yea, I didn't see it in that perspective. Good point, maybe she is being sarcastic.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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A nice guy has two different meanings and which one you get depends on if your talking to a guy or a girl....
 

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Sure there are exceptions to the rule but to think this girl somehow actually KNOWS what she wants....come on that should be a red flag right there. Have any of you honestly ever met a girl who actually knows what she wants except through a post hoc explanation.

you: you're with an *******
her: hmm I guess I like jerks then

or after she talks about douchbags she has dated:

you: you've been with a lot of a$$holes
her: oh well I used to like a$$holes but NOW I want a nice guy...(who isn't you btw)

A month later you'll find this genetic defective with another a$$hole...wish Vegas would take a bet on that.
 
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