"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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That Thing You Did That Melted Her Resistance

Tictac

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No, it's not a line. But it was something you said or did. And after that, you could tell that her resistance was just gone.

For example, I was with a woman at my place and we'd both been doing the 'push-pull' thing. So I pulled back, went and mixed us both another drink (relax guys, it was drink #2). She followed, we talked some more. I 'grabbed' her, pushed a bit more (got all 'gropy') and she said 'wait'. I said 'I'm tired of waiting'. She looked a bit startled, smiled, laughed and it was game on.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This girl was playing hard to get. After dropping her off on date two, I told her that she forgot something in the car. She insisted that she didn't forget anything. I told her I think it might be a card. She said she was already in her pajamas but she would come down anyway.

She came down and I said you forgot this. I grabbed her and kissed her, making sure not to do it for long but just give her a taste.

By the time I got home, I already got a text from her saying "We should hang out again and LONGER this time!!"
 
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