"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
That sinking feeling that you can't get a girl better than your ex.
- Thread starter OneofOne
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
in a short time you'll be back in the game!!
I was going through this earlier this year after a breakup.
I'm dating a girl now who is definitely hotter than my last gf.
Alex DeLarge
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All women have different aspects of personality which make them an attractive person as well. For instance, one girl you date may be very well rounded and knowledgable in the area of literature and could be a teacher, whereas another girl you meet might be very passionate about animal rights and volunteer regularly at a local animal shelter.
A while ago I was seeing a girl who worked with handicapped children and helping their parents take care of the children, then that ended. Soon after, I dated another girl who was into great music who was a special education teacher. Both were very attractive personally in their own areas. And I was really bummed out when things ended with both of these girls, but it helped me realize "Wow, there's probably a lot of genuine caring women out there I would love to meet!" There's nothing wrong or "non-DJ" about being bummed out over it. All humans get sad when we lose a connection with someone we adore, platonically or sexually.
A "non-DJ" thing to do is to try and control that which cannot be controlled (ex: beg for a woman back when she has no desire to be with you) or sacrifice elements of your personality for appeasement of others. Only change your personality for YOURSELF. no one else.
You just have to role with the punches and keep moving! Recognize that your sad over an event, but that it will eventually pass and you will return to your normal self.
Get what I'm saying? Hope you get past this soon man! Take a break from women and focus on yourself for a while like PDX1138 said.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
lol, this thread reminds me of some years back when I thought my world ,when it came to women, was over when i broke up with my LTR. I thought, omg, im getting older now and I look around and nobody is as pretty as her. I'm screwed. :crackup:OneofOne said:How do you get past the looming feeling that you won't be able to attract another girl as good as or better than your ex?
WOW, what a freaking clueless idiot I was. I mean, just wow. It simply amazes me how STUPID! we are when we are younger. haha.
It's kind of like when a recording artist takes a long break after a hit album. They look back and think "how the f*** did I do that?!?"
I have to start over and build my game again. LTRs kill your game.
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Simple. You watch this terrible commercial:OneofOne said:How do you get past the looming feeling that you won't be able to attract another girl as good as or better than your ex?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fl86lqm-CaM
Now ask yourself:
Do I want to be a chump like this loser?
Or a man with many options?
Oh man...RockaRolla25 said:Simple. You watch this terrible commercial:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fl86lqm-CaM
Now ask yourself:
Do I want to be a chump like this loser?
Or a man with many options?